Hallucinating Like Hell And Not Doing Well

please take a break!!!!

I need to get laid

it’s so wild to me when ppl say aroaces are “basically straight” or “straight by default”. i’ve NEVER been romantically and sexually attracted to a man in my whole life. that’s not straight. HOW is that straight? just because i’m also not romantically or sexually attracted to women either? being straight doesn’t mean you AREN’T attracted to ppl of the same sex, it means you ARE attracted to ppl of the opposite sex. i literally don’t know how else to explain it. i have as much in common with straight ppl that lesbians do, which is nothing.

people are so entrenched in heteronormativity they expect you to prove not-straightness in the manner and to the degree they find acceptable because ‘you are straight’ is their baseline