Permission PSA
It’s been a little while and I want to go over the rules about permission again.
“Okay, but… did I make a mistake?”
No. You didn’t do anything wrong. I just want to make sure we go over this now and then so I know you understand and remember it completely.
“Okay. May I edge please?”
No. No touching right now.
“But-”
I said no.
“Okay.”
Now. What do you remember about how permission works?
“Um… I need your permission to touch and to cum.”
That’s true.
“And to use the bathroom or spend any money over twenty dollars, and-”
That’s all true, but that’s not what I’m talking about today.
“It’s not?”
No. I’m talking about the other kind of permission.
“The other…? Oh! Sir, no. I don’t like talking about that.”
I know you don’t. But it’s important.
“Sir, please. You have permission for everything always.”
No. That’s not how it works. Now that kind of talk only lets me know how important it is to go over this again.
“Nnnn… Sirrrrr…”
Take this seriously and we can get right back to regular things.
“Mh. Okay.”
Okay. So. We do a lot of play where I make you feel confused and forgetful right?
“Yes, Sir.”
Do I have your permission to play those kind of games with you?
“Yes, Sir. I want you to. I like feeling that way.”
Okay. And you know I won’t ever do anything really serious without having a talk like this with you first.
“Yes, but… um…”
What is it?
“What about my orgasms?”
What about them?
“When you took them away… I was really fuzzy from lots of edges and you got me all mixed up.”
Yes, I remember. You were a confused, drippy little mess.
“But, so that was okay because of the talk we had before?”
That’s right. We had a bunch of talks really. About how you wanted to give up cumming but you were scared. And we didn’t do it until you were sure, right?
“Mmhm.”
Hey, are you okay?
“Yes, Sir, I… I just kind of wish you didn’t keep reminding me. I like to think you just took them away when I was confused.”
I know. And we can play like that more, soon.”
“Okay.”
Do you remember what to do if you agree to something when you’re all confused and you’re not sure if you meant to?
“I tell you.”
You tell me what?
“I tell you that I need to talk about business.”
Good. If you tell me that, then I’ll know we need to have a talk like this one with no mind games or anything like that.
“Yes, Sir.”
Okay. And you remember your safe words?
“Yes, Sir.”
And you remember how important it is to use them if you need to?
“Yes, Sir. I remember.”
Okay. It’s very important to me because I can do some really mean stuff and I need to know you’ll use those words if it’s ever too much.
“I will. I promise.”
Good. You’ll never be in trouble for using them, and I know you’ll never do it unless you really need to.
“No, never.”
Good girl. Okay, one last thing. If you’re ever with someone after me, someone who doesn’t do this with you, in some way or another, or who talks about not believing in limits or not needing your consent. What do you do?
“I get away from him and find a better one.”
That’s right. There. That wasn’t so hard, was it?
“No, I guess not.”
Would you like to edge now?
“Oh, yes, please, Sir!”
Okay. Nice and close for me. I only want nice hard edges from my girl before I take them away from you.










