Filling in the Gaps

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A musicagender connected to the song You're A Big Girl Now by Bob Dylan, from his album Blood on The Tracks - the flag colors are sampled from the album cover. This gender is FIN (feminine in nature), connected more to womanhood than girlhood, and the passage of time.

[Image ID: Two rectangular flag with 4 equally-sized horizontal lines with 3 thinner lines in the middle. colors in this order from top to bottom are dark dusty lavender, lavender, carnation pink, very light grey, carnation pink, lavender, and dark dusty lavender. In the center of both flags is a very light grey circle outlined with dark greyish purple. In the circle is a heart a symbol made up of two chain links in very light grey on top. In the first flag, the heart is colored as a radial gradient of the previous colors; in the second, the heart is purple. End ID.]

A rorlink term; involuntarily identifying with dolls, but voluntarily as a doll! This encompasses all types of dolls like ball-jointed dolls, ragdolls, and porcelain dolls.

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A -coded term an individual who is changeling coded; or coded to be a changeling. Does not necessarily mean literal coding, but it can; it also refers to narrative coding. Created with fellow Irish autistic people in mind, who relate to the changeling trope as an early understanding of autistic traits, but not exclusive to them.

More -coded terms can be found here.

Leavihomelyriden: a term for one uses the lyrics from She's Leaving Home by The Beatles to describe oneself or how one views oneself that is important to them for any reason. A lyriden term.

Leavihomemusien: a term for when the song She's Leaving Home by The Beatles is deeply integral or important to one’s identity. A musien identity.

Hey anon! That reminds me of toygender, or an imitation of a gender, typically simplified. Yes, it's a _gender label, but it's more like a replica of on, like, well, a toy miniature. (We actually use a subset of this term, toyfeminine, as many of us experience a femaleness that is mainly a recreation of our core's femaleness.) It doesn’t work perfectly, however. 

A gender related to the concepts of both angels and death. This can include, but is not specific to:

Being an angel that heralds death, or brings death to others;

An angelic, ethereal, or otherworldly connection to deathgender(s);

Being a dead angel, suicidal angel, or an angel who has been revived;

Genderfluidity between angelic or holy genders, and death aligned genders;

Being a psychopomp angel, or an angel that brings the souls of the dead to the afterlife;

A gender connected to aesthetics of heaven or pure afterlife.

This can be religiously aligned, but it could also be more spiritual or aesthetic-based. Not coined with otherkin in mind but are welcome to use. I would consider this xenic.

This gender may be AESIN (aesthetic-in-nature), XIN (xenic-in-nature) and under the umbrellas of alierenas, bachians, and religiogenders.

I don't really have a DNI, no.

This is meant as a resource for everyone. I put my views out there (pro-mspec gay & lesbian, pro-MOGAI orientations, etc) so people who disagree can choose to leave the blog, but I'm not going to police my followers & notes. Are there beliefs and groups that I want nowhere near me? Yes. Does that mean they can't use genders I make, access the resources I compile, or reblog for their own archival purposes? No. This is not Aisling's Blog, this is missing-mogai-labels.

I also have the choice to ignore, block, or otherwise limit interactions for my own sake; I'm not gonna take a gender coining request from an account with a hate symbol for a profile picture, for example.

A gender related to, influenced by, or best described by Francis Bacon paintings. It can be his whole body of work or specific painting(s).

Francis Bacon is best known for grotesque human forms, rough strokes, and raw emotion. His career stretched decades and he was one of the most famous painters of his time (and still!). Further reading can be found here and here. His entire portfolio can be found on the estate’s website. Warning for disturbing imagery.

The triangles are taken from the brush strokes in some of his most famous work. Contrast is also common in his pieces, including “ugly” colors or nearly-painful brightness. Colors picked from four of his paintings:

Screaming Pope, 1952

Self-portrait, 1971

Three Studies for Figures at the Base of a Crucifixion, 1944

Painting 1946, 1946

for example if this made no sense: i’d say my gender is a genderless void. however, since i am human and live with gender as we see it today i settle for being a guy. i’m fine with he/him pronouns and terms like brother because it’s best out of she/they or sister/sibling but my gender isn’t a guy, it’s a genderless void. i’m just settling with guy.

Hello anon!

The best term I found was aboy. Kind of a silly name but regardless, it seems to fit your experience pretty well. It's being fully agender, but comfortable being perceived as male/masculine, using he/him pronouns, or otherwise allowing masculine language and perception. On a similar note, there’s adonogender, or wanting to appear masculine without having a “true gender”. I think this could also mean without having a gender at all.

It also sounds a bit like libramasculine: being agender (or mostly agender) with some connection to masculinity. This, in some cases, is a partially-masculine gender, but can also be 100% agender with some tie to maleness, masculinity, etc.

Another one is virboy: “a gender identity that is practically and particularly genderless, but what is there can be described as boy/man. This usually happens when it is too stressful or difficult to have a gender.” 

Here are some less-accurate labels that might be applicable to you!

- Minungender: Being genderless, and/or the opposite of having a gender, but with some tie to masculinity. [x] - Virvoid: Being partially masculine and partially gendervoid. [x] - Axvir: Being both agender and proxvir; being genderless and having a connection to masculinity that is different than how men experience it. [x] - Genderorchid/Blackorchid: Having a gender through a genderless lens. [x] - Agender Mann: An agender person who refers to themself as a man the same way objects or animals are referred to as masculine by default, and/or in the way of “human” or “mankind”. [x]

Long time no see. Sorry about that. I didn’t mean to completely abandon this account, college has just been kicking my ass lately.

1. Asks are slowly being whittled down. I’m working on it and hopefully posts will be starting up next week.

2. The reveal of dead-dove-dont-eat’s owner has seriously disturbed me. This account is as far from intracommunity drama as it possible can, but the whole situation has shaken me really fucking bad. I’ll be keeping the google drive link up for posterity’s sake, though, and add plurgai terms to gender/orientation help posts. Untethering the term from the coiner is something that is really important to me.

3. I got a new computer! It’s a fancy Yoga. Thank my boyfriend for buying it for me. I’ll need to redownload Adobe back onto it but that won’t be too hard I think.

4. I also got a job! I work in the library now! Very quiet and nice place to be. I work in the Teen Room and the Tech Lab, which gives me an excuse to read some self-indulgent YA and mess with a 3D printer. 

Yes! Sleepy genders are lovely.

- Dream(y)coric: A gender related to dreamycore: pastels, softness, pastels, and sleep. [x] - Genderwiegenlied: A xenogender connected to small animals snuggling, lullabies, and sleep. [x] - Hazomnigender: A hazy and dreamlike gender. [x] - Cadalgender: A gender connected to or related to deep sleep, galaxy aesthetics, and soft blankets. [x] - Snoozegender: The definition is not directly laid out, but the flag describes connections to being tired; finding comfort & being in bed; blankets, pillows, & stuffed animals; dreams, daydreams, paracosms, and being within one's own worlds; and deep sleep & naps. [x] - Gendersomniare: A gender that feels sleepy and is related to sleep and dreaming. It may disappear once it "falls asleep". [x] - Plushsomigender: A gender connected to sleep and the soft things one sleeps with, or perhaps make one sleepy: soft pajamas, stuffed animals, fluffy pillows, fleecy blankets, warm sheets, etc. The gender may feel as if it is wrapped in a blanket, which can make it hazy. [x] - Gendersoporum: A gender that is in a deep slumber. It is tied to the moon, wool blankets, calmness, owls, and comfort. [x] - Sleepyleite: A xenogender that feels drowsy, warm, foggy, cozy, gentle, and hazy. It has a soft energy. [x] - Seamerosian: A Scene System gender: a gender that's like being in a snug and dreamy bedroom, wearing pastels, and feeling safe and cozy. [x]

Hey! Yeah, there's a perfect term for this! (And some others that you might like as well!)

It's called pxngender, a-pangender, or pangender-x. It's simultaneously being agender & pangender, or having no gender and being all genders simultaneously. The first flag is made by Mod AP for ask-pride-color-schemes, and the other is by neopronouns. There's also a symbol.

There's also pangenderless, which can be both "a pangender genderless" or "being every genderless identity". In addition, one definition of paradoxgender is similar, meaning "feeling as if you’re all the genders you could possibly be, but none at the same time."

Some other labels I think you might like is librapangenine, omnigender, genderdox, panflux, greypangender, & totumlian.

Hi anon! There's a lot of subtypes of both of those, so I'll aim for broader labels. Mathgender & sciencegender are the umbrella terms for each, for the record, so that might help you find others if none of these vibe with you. (Although mathgender is also a standalone label meaning "a precise but complex gender that, the more you explore its intricacies, the more bizarre it becomes".)

- Scienciagender: A gender related to science. [x] - Complexgender: When two genders are arranged on axes, and the individual's gender is somewhere on the resulting plane, like a complex number. [x] - Sin(e)gender: A gender that oscillates between two genders, and experiences everything in between. Based on a sine function graph. [x] - Technogender: A subset of sciencegender that describes a gender that is influenced by technology in some way. [x] - Sciragender: A gender inexplicably tied to science, emotionally, physically, or otherwise. - Genderelements: An umbrella term for genders based on an element off the periodic table. [x] [x] [x] - Numbergender: Labelling ones gender as an equation, numbers, or the like, or relating it to those concepts. It can be positive or negative, simple or complex, organized or messy. [x] -  Tangender: A gender related to tangent lines or tangent function graphs; a gender that is felt with certainty, but sometimes flows away or even goes beyond it. [x] - Secander/Segender: Similar to the above, but is also having multiple genders one is certain of. Based on secant lines, which have two points instead of the one tangent lines have. [x] - Arithmogender: A “number” gender, including positive & negative ones, decimals, integers, fractions, etc. [x] - Trigonogender: A gender comparable to triangles in a figurative way: it has three separate aspects, facets, or sides, that are not entirely distinguishable. The sides all come together to produce the complete gender, but the trinity can be recognized. [x] - [subject]ique: Any gender relating to a specific field or topic of science. Some examples are saturnique (moons of Saturn), hydrologique (hydrology), astronomique (astronomy), and watercyclique (water cycle). (Outside of sciencegenders, AUIN, or autonomous-in-nature, genders use the same suffix. Always double check definitions.) [x] [x] [x] [x]

Hi anon! Yep, there's sort of a term for this?

It's genderlie, which is exclusive to people with delusions, confabulation, and compulsive lying. It describes the feeling of ones gender being part of some elaborate lie to oneself or others. This may be the one you're talking about.

I made a nonexclusive variant of it, though.

Mendagender

A gender related to lying and/or the emotional responses of such: the fallout, the high of getting away with a lie, the complications of maintaining lies, and other possible feelings. It’s not exclusive to any group.

“Menda-” comes from the Latin word for lie or story, “mendacium”. The flag comes from the “four shades of lies”: red, white, grey, & black, and the symbol is based on crossed fingers.