miss aishe

Don't worry about the little stuff. None of it matters. Only love matters. If you remember this, that love is always present; it will be a good life.

I think we are only bitter about other people's joy in direct proportion to our commitment to keep joy from ourselves. The more often I do things I want to do, the less bitter I am at people for doing what they want to do.

To have her here in bed with me, breathing on me, her hair in my mouth - I count that something of a miracle.

Ghosting should not be a normalised and widely accepted part of dating as it often manifests itself in these subtle forms of emotional abuse. My advice to someone who has been ghosted? Move on. Do not prolong your suffering. They don't like you. If someone likes you, they will make it known. They have chosen not to communicate with you and they didn't close the door, so you're going to have to close it yourself. We needn't accept crumbs of validation from unworthy people anymore. We want and deserve the whole damn cake.