miscecanis lifestyle

Casually introduce it.

There’s no need for big “coming out” letters.. Miscecanis is simply a lifestyle that you partake in, and it’s likely you want someone to know because you want them to participate somehow, or you’d just like them to understand you so you can behave a certain way around them. Don’t make it sound like a big deal, otherwise it will become a big deal, and it doesn’t need to be. Start by saying things casually, like “oh my gosh! You have big alpha/beta/omega energy!”. Show them things you like, for example if you’re an omega and like collecting plushies and blankets, tell them about it. Use simple terms, don’t go in depth. Bring things up nonchalantly, in a casual, maybe even silly way. Show them memes, cute aesthetic photos relating to a/b/o, and maybe even read them some excerpts of stories (sfw of course). Maybe tell them a bit about things you like to do, like if you nest, but use discreet terms like “I like to build pillow forts because it makes me comfortable!”. Don’t rush into it, and don’t bring up a bunch of hyper specific terms right away! That will usually put people off. These things are easy to pass off as personality traits, so just start slowly bringing it into the relationship. Gauge their response, if certain things make them uncomfortable, don’t do them anymore. If they seem confused or interested, this leads me into my next point...

Allow them to ask questions.

Undoubtedly, people will have questions. You need to be open to all sorts of questions and be willing to answer them openly and honestly. They will be confused. Some questions may seem offensive, but don’t let your emotions get the best of you. Stay strong and collected while you answer. Plan your responses. Go in depth as much as they’re willing to hear, but....

Don’t overexplain it.

Overexplaining, when not necessary, can make things uncomfortable or go to fast. Take things at a pace that the other person is willing to go. Explain as much as they seem interested in knowing. Don’t say things that are too much information to take in all at once, especially when it comes to omegaverse and miscecanis lifestyle. Don’t be pushy about anything, just answer questions in a calm and casual way.

Be open and honest.

Like stated before, opennness and honesty are the key here. Don’t hide things because they’re “too weird”. If you take it slow and introduce things at a proper pace, going into depth when the time comes is important. Don’t keep things away from someone who’s willing to learn more. You need to tell them what it means to you, what you want from them specifically, why you’re telling them this, and plenty of other important things must be said. Especially if you’re expecting them to participate, be willing to explain everything truthfully. When they’re ready, starting explaining terms. If they’re genuinely interested and want to know more, sending them resources or guides can go a long way. Let them learn things at their own pace as well, if they seem like they’d prefer to do their own research.

Approach it with caution.

Don’t expect them to understand right away. Don’t expect them to accept you at all. You need to approach this with caution and realize that not everyone will be comfortable with this type of thing. And that’s okay. You may be disappointed, but please don’t push someone beyond their comfort limits. We are not entitled to people’s participation and understanding, and we can’t blame them for their comfort zones and what they’re willing to do and not do.

Be understanding. Accept the results.

It may not go the way you want it to. That’s okay. It’s okay. You still have plenty of people who will support you, especially if you have other accepting friends or pack mates. You have a whole online community as well. Whatever the outcome, you must accept the results and not push someone into something. If you expect understanding, then you must be understanding. Don’t freak out and lose control of yourself when things don’t go as you’d hoped. Expect that things like this may happen and move on. Apologize for making them uncomfortable, or tell them it’s okay if they don’t want to be a part of it. Be emotionally mature. Don’t guilt trip or yell. Just accept that things don’t always go as we plan, and move on.

Ultimately, not everyone needs to know.

dolls that carry a certain dynamics scent and look like this

It is quite common for an alpha to scent their mate while claiming them. They do this to let other alphas know that their mate is taken, and to stay away.

Scenting their mate, whether it be an omega, beta, or even another alpha, usually consists of the alpha rubbing their wrist, face, or hands over their mates body. This allows their scent to linger over their body and belongings.

Omegas can also scent their mates, but its usually a bit gentler and tends to be done through, hugging, cuddling, or wearing their clothes and returning them for their mate to wear.

People don’t necessarily need to be mates in order to scent each other. It’s very common for close friends and families to scent each other, but it’s with a different intent than when a mate scent marks their mate.

Proceed with hcs of omegas teasing their alphas please

I love this new meme for the a/b/o community jhsjksjkkjsks

the classic just ‘oh no there’s something on the floor :( I’ll bend over to pick it up’ and the alpha just has to watch? iconic

stuff they say like ‘oh babe do you want to- oh wait you can’t’ and the alpha is just left wondering what could have been 

less clothing on than usual, and the alpha isn’t sure if at this point they’re just hallucinating or if their omega partner has always spent two hours just wearing a towel

and sometimes more clothing than usual, getting extra dressed up and putting on scent enhancers just to laze around smelling and looking extra nice 

why is there suddenly sexy music playing all the time? definitely don’t look at the special no knot November playlist on the omegas phone. there is absolutely no correlation 

hanging out with other friends and coming back smelling really strongly of them and just going ‘if only there was a way you could make me smell more like you...nope can’t think of it’

if they showered together, even if it was just a fluffy shower, it’s practically torture now

it’s movie night in the household and the omega gets to pick...for some reason I can’t think why it’s got some exciting scenes in it

I can just imagine at the end it gets to the point where all the omega has to do is exist and the alpha is just?? manic jsksjks

Top 10 Omega Sex Positions

1. Doggy style - The most naturally submissive position for an Omega. The Alpha has full dominance over the movements and the Omega has no other choice but to explore their most primal connection with their mate. Deepest position with the stronger orgasms for an Omega. The perfect ABO position.

2. Leapfrog - Variation of doggy style but the Omega arches their back further in order to allow the Alpha to reach the G-spot. Allows for the deepest penetration possible. Keeps the Dom-sub dynamic going on.

3. Flatiron - Omega is laying on their stomach and the Alpha is on top. Putting a cushion under elevates the butt and creates deeper penetration. The Omega is basically at the mercy of the Alpha as they are laying on top and controlling the pace.

4. Missionary - Most romantic one. Allows for eye contact and easy choking. The Alpha can still control the movements. Allows for more closeness and neck/cleavage kissing.

5. Rock n Roll - Variation of missionary. Extreme flexibility needed. The Omega’s legs are completely bent, almost touching the face. The Alphas has complete control and can pick the pace and roughness. Extremely hot position for deepness and domination.

6. Spread eagle - Variation of missionary. The Omega keeps their legs wide open, can also hold onto them. Perfect position for the Alpha to put their Omega while they play with sex toys or command them to take it while keeping their legs up.

7. Splitting bamboo - Variation of missionary. The Omega lifts one leg in the air to create a different angle for their mate. Allows for deeper and faster sex while also keeping the eye contact going. The Alpha’s hands can explore everything.

8. Reverse cowgirl - The best view from an Alpha’s perspective of their Omega’s glorious butt. The Omega can be in charge and control the movements, getting themselves off on their Alpha’s dick. Or the Alpha can control the whole thing by placing their hands on the Omega’s waist and ravaging them from underneath.

9. Cowgirl - A perfect view of the Omega’s face and boobs. Easy access to touch everything. The Alpha can still dominate the position. It’s such a joy to watch their Omega fall apart and go weak on their dick, making the Alpha take over and finish the job.

10. 69 - The best position for oral stimulation. The Alpha and the Omega can enjoy a very intimate connection. Even though the Alpha is under their mate, they can still be in charge. Omegas are very responsive in this position.

Blankets and cozy cardigans with leggins

Warm boots

Thick, over the knee socks

Rosy cheeks from the cold air

Coffee/hot chocolate/tea all the time

Cinnamon

Being extra calm and happy, knowing that family gatherings are coming

Preparing DIY projects to make the house feel more like home

Infinite cuddling

Omegas THIS November (going through corona):

Baking cakes non stop. Cinnamon, apple and pumpkin, so the house smells incredible

Has a ton of indoor ideas to do, probably a list with different topics or moods

Prepares online meetings with family and friends to spend important days together (maybe Thanksgiving!)

Reminding everyone that despite everything we are lucky to have each other

Randomly wearing cute warm clothes around the house, since they can't be worn outside

No going out? No problem, reading non stop