Hongjoong would hate arguments.
Not because he can’t handle conflict, but because he genuinely cares about the people he loves, and the thought of hurting you would eat him alive.
During the argument, he would probably try to explain his side immediately, talking fast, trying to make you understand his intentions.
But if he realized you were getting more upset, he’d stop.
The guilt would hit him hard.
The entire evening, he’d replay every word in his head.
“I shouldn’t have said it like that.”
“Why didn’t I just listen?”
He’d stay in his studio pretending to work, but he wouldn’t be able to focus.
The moment his pride lost against his love for you, he’d come home.
You’d hear a small knock on your bedroom door.
He’d sit on the floor instead of beside you, giving you space.
“I’ve been thinking about what happened.”
“And I think…I spent more time trying to explain myself than understanding why you were hurt.”
“I never want you to feel like your feelings aren’t important to me.”
Hongjoong would apologize sincerely—not just saying sorry, but explaining exactly what he did wrong and how he wanted to do better.
Then he’d reach for your hand.
“I love you too much to let one argument become a wall between us.”
He’d probably make a playlist for you.
Songs that said everything he couldn’t put into words.
Seonghwa would be absolutely miserable.
This man thrives on taking care of the people he loves, so knowing that you’re upset with him?
During arguments, he might become quieter rather than louder.
He hates saying something he’ll regret.
So instead, he’d withdraw to calm himself down.
But the distance would hurt him just as much as it hurts you.
The entire night, he’d keep checking your door.
Wondering if you’re sleeping.
Wondering if you’re still angry.
He couldn’t take it anymore.
Maybe your favorite snack.
You’d open the door to find him standing there with the most apologetic expression imaginable.
His voice would almost be a whisper.
“If you don’t want to talk yet, that’s okay.”
“But…I wanted you to know I’m here.”
The thing about Seonghwa is that he’d never force reconciliation.
And when you finally sat with him, he’d hold your hands gently.
“I’m sorry for hurting you.”
“I know saying sorry isn’t enough.”
“So tell me what I can do better.”
He genuinely wants to learn.
After making up, he’d become extra affectionate for days.
More random “Did you eat?” messages.
Because, in his mind, he needs to make up for every minute you spent hurting.
Yunho would try to fix things immediately.
He physically cannot stand tension.
The moment you stop talking to him, he’s already regretting everything.
At first, he might attempt humor.
Anything to lighten the atmosphere.
But if he realizes you’re genuinely upset?
And suddenly he’s serious.
He’d probably give you some space for an hour or two.
Only to return with puppy eyes.
No matter whose fault it was, Yunho would focus on solving the problem together.
“I hate fighting with you.”
“It makes everything feel wrong.”
And every time you explained your feelings, he’d nod.
“I see why you felt that way.”
The biggest thing about Yunho?
He’d hold you afterward and repeat:
The cuddles afterward would last hours.
Not because he doesn’t care.
Actually, because he cares too much.
He’s naturally reserved with difficult emotions, so arguments would overwhelm him.
His first instinct would be to think quietly.
To understand both sides.
He’d notice every little thing.
It would bother him far more than he’d admit.
When he’s finally ready, he’d approach you gently.
“I understand why you were upset.”
And because Yeosang isn’t someone who talks excessively, every word would matter.
“I don’t want us to stay like this.”
He’d probably sit beside you in silence afterward.
Because his love language is presence.
Actions over grand declarations.
Maybe he’d take your hand.
Rest his head on your shoulder.
And that quiet intimacy would say more than a thousand words ever could.
This man loves with his entire heart.
At first, emotions might get the better of him.
He could become frustrated.
But the second he realizes you’ve been hurt?
He’d spend the entire night thinking about you.
The tears are threatening.
“I hate that I made you cry.”
He’d wrap his arms around you the moment you allowed him.
Holding you as though letting go would make the world collapse.
San would be extremely physically affectionate after arguments.
Playing with your fingers.
Wanting reassurance that you’re still there.
“Please keep telling me how you feel.”
“I want to be someone who makes you happy.”
He isn’t the best with expressing difficult emotions immediately.
Not because he doesn’t care.
Because he’s overthinking EVERYTHING.
“Does she still love me?”
“What if I make it worse?”
But Mingi is also incredibly soft-hearted.
Eventually, he’d gather his courage.
And instead of some perfect speech…
You’d get pure sincerity.
“I don’t like fighting with you.”
And suddenly, he’d start talking more.
Everything he’d been holding in finally pouring out.
He’d explain his feelings.
And when things are okay again?
Resting his head on your lap.
Wrapping himself around you.
Following you around the house.
Because he needs physical proof that everything is okay now.
Wooyoung would be stubborn.
He’d absolutely argue his point.
But the thing about Wooyoung?
He loves harder than he fights.
The moment he’s alone, reality hits.
When you finally meet, his playful personality disappears.
“I know I can be difficult.”
“But I never want to hurt you.”
And because he’s naturally affectionate, he’d try fixing things through actions.
Ordering your favorite food.
Resting his forehead against yours.
He’d probably make you laugh at some point too.
Because seeing you smile again?
“Next time, let’s argue less and cuddle more.
Jongho would be the calm one.
He’s not someone who likes unnecessary drama.
But that doesn’t mean he isn’t affected.
Actually, he’d spend time thinking carefully about everything that happened.
Considering your perspective.
And when he decides to apologize?
He’d sit down with you and say:
“I thought about what happened.”
“And I understand where I was wrong.”
His voice would be steady.
“I don’t want us to repeat this.”
Jongho believes in solutions.
“What can we both do better next time?”
And even though he isn’t the most openly clingy person, after making up?
He’d show his affection quietly.
Holding your hand longer.
Making sure you’re eating.
The little acts that say:
“I love you. I’m here. We’re okay.”
Because for Jongho, love isn’t about never arguing.
It’s about choosing each other afterwa
