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No, no, baby. Mommy/Daddy decides.

I think somebody needs mommy or daddy’s help. Can you say it for me? use your big-girl/big-boy words? 

Well I don’t know about you, but it sure sounds to me like you’re saying “I need spankies” when you say that, prince/princess. 

We know you’re a baby, don’t we. Can you say it? Come on, sweety. Tell me you’re my little baby.

Oh, you think you’re too big, now? You think you get to make the rules, even though you’re a tiny li’l baby.

It sure sounds like you want to ask my permission…

You belong right here *pats their lap*

Say, “Please mommy/daddy”. I want to hear you ask nicely

Can I hear you say, “Please?”

Aww, it’s like you think you’re in charge.

I love it when you get all big and serious and adult. It just makes it cuter for me to see your little baby self, the true baby we both know you really are. 

If you keep arguing, we’re going to need to get a strap to hold your paci in place…

Oh, my sweet precious baby. You know that I will make the right decision for you. Because I know best!

Oh little one, I just love it when you play pretend, and act like a grownup!

That wasn’t a question, little one. That was an instruction. 

Do I need to use my serious Mommy/Daddy voice? Hmm?

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1) when you don't want to wear a diaper, remember that you have to wear one because you need one (even if that's not totally true)

2) you must always wear a diaper in public, (if you are not comfortable wearing a thin one) know that if you do not wear leggings your diaper will remain invisible under your clothes

3) make your diapers more accessible than your underwear, this is the first step towards ditching old underwear, the second step is to replace your old underwear with plastic panties.

4) If you're afraid or ashamed to go outside wearing a diaper, know that resilience is your best friend!

the constant crinkle and bulk of their diaper butt remind them of how little they really are.

it's laughable to think they could stay dry on their own, and diapers save you from dealing with their constant accidents.

it’s hilarious watching them try to hide their diaper butt under their clothes.

the adorable look of surprise and relief on their faces when they helplessly fill their diaper is priceless.

expecting them to act like adults is pointless, and diapers remind them of their true place as your little.

they’re clearly more comfortable being treated like babies, so why bother pretending otherwise?

the cute little waddle they have when wearing a diaper; looks so adorably infantile, which is exactly what they deserve.

they need constant reminders of their place, and nothing does that better than a bulky diaper.

the way they shyly admit they need a change after filling their diaper is incredibly cute.

I want you to finally be potty trained so we can get you out of pull-ups. You really think you need to go BACK to wearing diapers? And 24/7?

I don’t think you understand what that means. No we aren’t going to play at it. There is no trial run. There isn’t any deciding you don’t like it and going back. If you need diapers, you’ll be in diapers.

Every pair of big girl panties in your drawers? Thrown out. You’ll never need them again. We will fill your dressers with the necessary diapers, inserts, powders and creams.

When you need to pee? You will just go, right then and there. When you need to mess? You will squat down and grunt and push, right there no matter who is around. Doesn’t matter where we are or what we are doing, your only choice is using your diaper. There are no asking for changes. Only babies where diapers 24/7 and daddy decides when you get changed.

You will forget what a toilet is. You’ll get so used to the bulk between your legs, you’ll forget what it’s like to not be in your padded prison.

The only times you’ll be a nakey baby is when you are getting a necessary bath, or those brief interludes when you’re going from a stinky wet diaper to a fresh new one.

Oh no, you absolutely don’t get sex anymore. I don’t want to be inside someone who needs diapers every day and every night. You don’t get that privelege. If you get lucky enough to be allowed to cum, it’ll be in your diaper, and only one that’s used. Orgasms don’t seem like something necessary for a padded princess like yourself.

Everyone will know. Between your waddling, the crinkling, the smell of powder or worse, I don’t see how your new state could be disguised. If you are capable of finding it? Well I’ll also be checking you regardless who might be around. If you’re consistently diapered up I can’t risk you getting a rash. That’s much more important than trying to keep your little predicament a secret.

Also, let’s not forget your room would give away any hints you’re pathetic self didn’t already. The diaper pail, the changing table, all the necessities of a 24/7 baby.

Now, I don’t know what we will do about going to the pool or the beach, I’m not sure the make swimming diapers for a girl your size but I certainly don’t trust a full time pissy pants in a bikini. Maybe that’s one more consequence of this decision.

Based on the people who have been in touch alone, 7 couples have embarked on this journey so far. 4 found this article as part of trying to help their ABDL partner and 3 were sent it by their partner as something they felt may be good for them.

As of this weekend, all are now underway and so far all reporting positively 🙌🙌

Some additional guidance focused on the first few days and weeks:

The timelines provided are just a rough guide

Several partners decided to start almost immediately (1-3 days) as they knew their partner already had enough of a diaper supply for the first week or two (around 30-50 diapers).

Equally others have encouraged diaper training from the start and made sure to not stop doing their normal activities getting them quickly used to wearing in public, etc. Months 1-6 could in theory be condensed to weeks 1-6.

There is very positive feedback around creating a dedicated changing area

This comes from both the ABDL and their partner, with the main benefit being a feeling of accepting this is part of them and not trying to hide it.

The most important parts are having a range of their diapers visible (at least 20), changing supplies like wipes and powder next to the changing area and having at least a wipe clean changing mat on a bed. 2 couples have built a dedicated changing table with the biggest benefit being the height making changes easier.

Expect some resistance

The novelty factor wears off after a few days and this often leads to requests for exceptions, to stop or to change the rules. Everyone has got through this period but it can be testing, make sure to hold firm and say you want to at least give it a go for a few months.

Males post orgasm also enter a period of low where they may hate being diapered. This is born out of insecurity about their interest and you shouldn’t pander to it. If it becomes a big problem I’d seriously recommend trying chastity.

Changes aren’t a pain

A common worry for the partners was the time overhead of having to check and change them. Doing both is definitely best but if you’re time limited I’d highly recommend you opt for doing all their changes.

You will quickly find you become a pro at doing it in a few minutes with the dedicated changing area helping massively.

Any initial awkwardness fades quickly and these become great bonding times. It also helps prevent cheating.

The strictness can vary within reason

4/7 opted for pull ups at work and with family/friends

2/7 opted to start straight with diapers at all times but using thin, cloth backed for work / friends.

1/7 allows childish / abdl underwear in these scenarios

2 tried initially allowing 💩 in the toilet but over the first two weeks backtracked as it caused issues with cheating and diapers breaking while going to the toilet.

The disposal of all of their normal adult underwear was a critical step for all couples.

The “fashion show” and subsequent shopping is a key stage of acceptance

I’d now recommend you do this on day 2 when your partner is in a half used diaper. Make them try on all their bottoms making two piles of diaper friendly and diaper unfriendly. You can choose to keep a few diaper unfriendly bottoms for exceptions but this should be 2-3 items at a maximum.

Remember this should include clothes for vacations as well. Normal adult nightwear should be all discarded as abdl clothing should be worn exclusively at night.

Diaper friendly doesn’t need to mean it completely makes the diaper invisible but it shouldn’t be obvious to someone looking quickly that they are diapered.

Tops generally don’t need to change as much but longer ones are preferable. For women dresses and skirts should be checked that they cover the diaper even if it was sagging slightly.

Ideally straight after this while they’re still in the same diaper take them clothes shopping to replace any items as required. This trip is also the ideal time to buy a dedicated diaper changing bag for them (can just be a backpack).

Do a diaper inventory and increase their diaper stockpile

They’ll likely be using around 100 diapers a month so I’d recommend aiming to have 2 months worth in stock.

Create piles of their current diapers and do a stock check. Using an app like DiapStash makes this easy.

Then order them enough diapers to take it up to around 200. At home it’s generally best to keep them in thick diapers like MegaMax. It’s also worth having a good stock of ABDL diapers to be used when their diaper will be exposed. For public wear initially I’d recommend something like Tena Slip Ultima’s or Northshore Supreme’s.

This is an important step in showing them that this isn’t a short-term change.

Dealing with cheating

It’s very likely that they’ll try cheat in the first few weeks and having a strict response to this is CRITICAL.

A punishment should be used like spanking, the use of laxatives or the loss of a privilege. Also if the cheat happened around one of the exceptions threaten to take it away and have them diapered at those times instead.

If this happens more than once I’d recommend switching to using a locking diaper cover or other locking clothing to prevent them taking off their diaper.

Make them feel accepted

The best cure for cheating which often is trigger by feelings of shame is making them feel accepted. The above steps will all help but most important is to make them feel comfortable being diapered around you.

Diaper pats and checks are great for this. Also at home try and have their diapers as indiscreet as possible, exposed or under an abdl onesie is best.

Poopy diapers will cause the most anxiety so being positive when you detect those is key.

Tell them how much you think this is good for them, to help them know you’re supportive and not having second thoughts.

Don’t allow exceptions to be abused

Exceptions of not wearing diapers are often required to make it work initially but it’s important you don’t allow them to bleed over.

For example if they come home from work they should be diapered within 5 minutes of coming in. If driving more than an hour to visit friends or family then they should be diapered for the drive, changing just before arriving or just after leaving. Again at night even when staying with friends or family they should be diapered.

Most importantly even if them messing their diaper will be inconvenient don’t make exceptions and be serious when you say diapers are their new toilet.

Picking diapers

Often partners struggle with selecting the correct diaper. If you’re changing them this should be your choice but don’t be afraid in the first week to ask them if they think this diaper is the right one.

The main choice is between discretion and absorbency. At home discretion shouldn’t be a concern so normally pick a thicker diaper. The only exception to this is if you know your baby often goes 💩 in the mornings a thick diaper might be a bit of a waste. Go with a thinner option to last until around lunch where they can then be changed into a thick diaper to get them to bedtime. Nighttimes should always be a thick overnight diaper and often an ABDL one which will be exposed.

At weekends at home I also use more ABDL diapers with them being exposed or visible under ABDL clothing.

For public generally a thinner more discrete diaper is best. However if you’re doing a longer activity which is less active like watching a movie then thicker might be better. Equally long journeys suit thicker diapers. If leaving the house for more than a few hours then taking a stocked diaper bag is essential.

After the first week your decision should be final so if you put them in a thick diaper to go out to a restaurant then they can’t complain.

Well this got a lot of notes the first time around, so I’ll give the people more of what they want! Here are 50 more cute quips to infantilize your partner with.

C’mon little one, once we’ve gotten you out of the tub we’ll put your nighttime diaper and pajamas on, and then we’ll get you a bottle before bed. Don’t worry, we’ll put a stuffer in your diaper so that your bottle doesn’t make you leak. 

Uh-uh baby, if you need to adjust your diaper you tell me. If I let you do it yourself it wont fit right, it should be a bit snug to catch all your pee-pees. I’m 

And presto! With a dash of powder and a dab of lotion my baby boy/girl is fresh and ready for their clean diaper! 

I’ve been reading that fussy little babies sometimes try to take off their diapies, so we’re going to make sure that doesn’t happen. Can you go find the duct tape little one? 

Baby girl/boy, if you think that your diaper is staying on for your spanking you have another thing coming. Come here, let mommy/daddy shimmy it down, and then get over my knee. 

Look here little one, this tea is great for making clearing up that little bought of constipation you’ve been having. A couple glasses and you’ll just have to get used to making uh-ohs and oopsies in your diapers. 

It’s a good thing that we put a harness on your highchair baby, you always get so squirmy I check your diapers. Speaking of which, let’s see if you’ve wet since you started eating. 

Lay still baby, and don’t you even think about peeking at what mommy/daddy is doing during your diaper change. You just worry about filling them and I’ll worry about changing them. 

Where do you think you’re going little one? I can’t let you go out to the grocer without a fresh diaper, why don’t we head to the nursery for a minute and then you can go play store for me. 

I love how this skirt fits you baby, and I love how I can always tell if your diaper is wet while you’re wearing it, it’s so convenient. 

Put down the screen baby girl/boy and come over here for some snuggles. Don’t worry, you can have your phone back after you tell me you need a diapie change. 

I think I’ll put your mittens on before bedtime baby, last time I let you have your hands you got yourself into trouble. I know you won’t admit it, but you can’t help but touch yourself in a wet diaper. 

I got a new pacifier for you little one! Look, it’s got a strap to keep it in your mouth. Let’s put it on now, so you don’t whine as I wipe your bottom when I change your diaper. 

C’mon baby and sit on my lap. Oh, I see, you don’t want to mush the mess you made in your diaper when I bounce you on my knee, but don’t worry, mommy/daddy will clean you up after you admit how much you like it. 

Hmm, you’re awfully quiet right now baby. Why don’t you get that padded tush over here, my mommy/daddy-senses know that you’re about to get into mischief. 

If you think you’re even close to wearing training pants/panties today, you are sadly mistaken. In fact, I think we’re going to do double diapers for nap time, you’ve had a lot of juice this morning. 

We need to make a run to the store and restock on some supplies for YOUR changing table, I’d hate to put you in YOUR diapers without baby powder and diaper rash cream. 

Baby, why don’t you fetch me a drink from the kitchen. You clearly don’t need one with how full that diaper is, and I want to see you waddle. 

Careful baby, you’re about to have a run-in with the tickle monster, and I know that you can’t hold your pee-pees when you can’t stop laughing. 

I think you need some tummy time little one. Lay down and let me get a good view of that cute diapered bottom. 

Baby your diaper is so full one of the crotch snaps on your onesie has already popped open. I guess that’s a signal that I need to undo the others, let’s go change your diaper. 

Don’t worry baby, the only people that will know you are diapered are the two of us, unless you act up while we’re out and I need smack your bottom. I don’t want you to think I won’t do it either, I’d rather you suffer the embarrassment of being spanked in public than having a tantrum in public. 

You make it so obvious that you love your diapers baby, I can see how excited you get every time I change you. Maybe if you’re a good boy/girl we can do something about that before bedtime. 

It’s a good thing we put that stuffer in your diaper baby, you definitely would have leaked by now and I won’t be able to change you for another hour. 

Oh baby I could just eat you up, you’re so adorable when you try to wear big girl/boy clothes. Come on, let’s stop pretending and dress you in your footie pajamas before naptime. 

Quit squirming little one, you have the sniffles and I want to take your temperature. Yes, of course we’re doing it rectally, because it’s the most accurate way for babies who wear diapers, so let’s get these legs in the air and hold still for a minute. 

Prince/Princess it’s time to calm down and get ready for bedtime. Let’s get in the bathtub and then I’ll let you pick out your diaper cover for tonight since you’ll be in a think overnight diaper. 

Don’t cry baby, I love you regardless of the fact that you can’t keep your underpants/panties clean. But this just proves that you need diapers, so go get me a towel for you to lie down on while I get your diaper bag. 

Do you want some ice cream baby girl/boy? Okay, let’s get you into your highchair. Yes you do have to be strapped in, I don’t care if you don’t like that the crotch strap pushes your diaper against your groin, now let’s get a bib on you. 

Oopsie! Your diaper is so full that you fell down. Let’s get you cleaned up so you can get back to toddling, I can smell that you really need a diapie change.

I bought a magic wand for us to use before bedtime baby, now I don’t even have to take off your diapers to relieve you, you can just make stickies in your pants like a good little one. 

Give me your hand little one, I don’t want you wandering off by yourself. We’ll only be in here for a minute, I just need to get some suppositories for you for later today. 

No baby, the potty is off limits. You’ve already wet that diaper at least once this afternoon, so it would be pointless to let you use the toilet now. 

Maybe pullups weren’t the best choice today, they don’t hold as much as your diapers and I think they’ve already hit their limits for pee-pee. I guess we’ll try again much, MUCH later. 

Potty training? As if baby, you’re going to be in diapers for a long time. Now lay down and let mommy/daddy take care of you, and maybe one day I won’t have to wipe you when you pee your pants. 

Yes, you’re very sexy baby and mommy/daddy loves to see you naked, but they love it more when you’re in diapers. 

You know the rules little one, if you don’t make a pushie by the end of naptime in your diapers I’m going to make it happen. I’ll just leave this enema on the table near your crib to remind you how serious I am. 

We’re done changing you on the floor baby, I got a new changing table for us to use. You have too many accidents not to have a dedicated piece of furniture for mommy/daddy to change your diapers. 

We’re only halfway through this road trip and you’re already soaked. I’m going to have to pullover and change you in the backseat, and no, you don’t have a say in this. 

If I get you a new stuffie you have to promise I won’t catch you rubbing up against it during naptime. I know you’re desperate for a release when you get sent to bed in a fresh diaper. 

Oh I think your skirt is just long enough for my liking little one, any longer and I wouldn’t be able to check your diapies so easily. In fact, let’s do a quick check right now just to be sure. 

If you’re so against using your diapers, maybe I just need to tie you down until you don’t have a choice. A couple hours strapped to the crib might be just the thing you need to realize you’re just a little baby. 

My gosh aren’t you just too cute when you get the kicky feets baby, and your diaper is so crinkly when you get wiggly. 

Oh I don’t think so baby, that phone isn’t for little babies like you. Why don’t you color me a picture, I know you love coloring because you don’t even realize when you wet yourself when you’re making a pretty picture. 

Yes, this diaper is really thick baby, but if it wasn’t you would leak during naptime. Now spread your legs nice and wide and keep them up high so I can powder your bottom. 

I think we’re going to keep you in diapers all weekend baby. I just love the idea of keeping you in soft padding and listening to your little moans when I wipe your prince/princess parts. 

Don’t test me baby, I’ll gladly take you over my knee and pull down your diaper for a spanking if you need one. Maybe it’s time for a timeout, but I’ll pull your pants down first so I can get a good look at that bottom before a blister it. 

Naptime little one! I’ve got your favorite pajamas, your pacifier gag and a nice thick overnight diaper for you, so let’s not fuss while I strap you to the changing table, I think I’m going to take my time with you before putting you down in your crib, but you’re not going to cum until you wake up. 

Awwww, are you a little stinky right now? I think you can go a little longer before I change you, you haven’t made any pee-pees yet and I don’t want to put you in a fresh diaper right before you wet. 

I love you so much baby girl/boy, you’re my precious little diapie baby and I would have it no other way.

Ohhh just look at you hun !

You seem quite powerless there ! and look at what you are wearing at the momment ...

A babyish Onesie and a big baby diaper !

haha !

Ill have fun just to look at you strugle and wine while i do my adult maners around the house.. To look at you while you fill your diapers while sucking on your pacifier. How cute !

But yeah ill film your every move for my Only fan page for all to see and to let you have souvenirs of your humiliating state. I love seing you degrade yourself and always asking for more. Begging me to diaper you and making fun of you . I love it when you beg me to take off those diaper of ove you ... I love to see you cry while i am exposing you in front of my friends while they tease you and laught a you. While you go in your diapers, looking powerless like a useless baby .

I love smoking a cigarette looking at your diaper while you feel the SHAME of being a diaper filling baby slave not knowing how to stand in front of me. The look of your face when you mess them in front of me is priceless. Those momments reminds me how stupid you look and how powerless and maniable you are while on my rules and power.

Its incredible how a plain Diapers can make a real man be soo submissive and maniable... As a Mistress, i foud that the diapers are the most effective way to submit a man to a be a total powerless wimp. The power i hold on a man in diaper and is very intense and easy. The best part of it is that after a short time, he begs to be pampered and regressed to a 2 yo baby that drools and crawls at my commands. i love when he struggles to take off his diapers but simply cant. Its the sing he is confronting himself to his new life and place and the sing that the regression i hold on you is 100 % effective. And NO you stay in your diapers. they arent full yet.. I want you to marinate in your own poopoo and pee. Ill watch you fill them and soil them. Ill love to see you sit in your swing whit a full diaper. ill squish your diaper every now and make shure your poopoo is weel sticked to the whole diaper.

Your soo cute . hahaha. how do you feel and smell now baby !

My best friends are comming over tonight ... they will see you as you are .. they arent aware that your here in my donjon... your my surprise for the night !! haha. We will enjoy good wine while you stand there powerless. Cant wait to see there reactions. They are pretty wild . hope youll survive the momment. lol ...

Please please please, hear me out:

🍼Every time I try to talk, shush me. Grown ups get to talk, not babies. Gently put my paci back in my mouth and smirk at me.

🍼Always treat me the same way no matter who’s around. Babies don’t get any dignity, so why should I?? Your friends, my old “big” friends, your family, it doesn’t matter. Let the grown ups do the thinking.

🍼Hold my hand everywhere we go so I don’t get lost, and hold it so tight it hurts when I try to let go. Embarrass me and scold me in public, make it clear to everyone that I’m not an adult worth respecting.

🍼Check my diaper no matter where we are. Out at a restaurant? Pants down around my ankles anyway, grown ups need to check thoroughly after all. We have friends over at our house? I shouldn’t be wearing pants at home anyway, no cover at all for my diaper. Mommy/daddies precious little one isn’t allowed to hide their pissy pampers, no matter who’s over. No dignity.

🍼Refuse to leave me alone in the house. 26 years old? No, I’m 26 months old you assure me, I can’t be trusted alone. You’ll hire a babysitter to watch me, and they’re to be treated with the exact same respect I would treat any other grown up. Who cares if they’re “younger” than me? Babies who aren’t potty trained don’t get to complain about who’s in charge.

🍼Set firm rules, and when I break them, punish me. Follow through, all the time, always. I want you to put so much fear in me that I’m conditioned not to break your rules. Make me sleep outside like a dog. Rip my pampers down and spank me so hard I cry. Slap me and laugh at how weak I am and how I can’t fight back.

🍼My phone?? Nope. That’s for grown ups. I can have a “pretend” phone instead (it’s just a bright piece of plastic with fake buttons) who was I gonna talk to anyway?? I can’t even spell, I’m just a stupid toddler.

🍼Schedule play dates for me with other Little’s. Humiliate me in front of them, and encourage them and their caregiver to laugh along with you about how pathetic I am. “Oh sweetieee, did you piss your pants again?? God, I can smell you from here EW” orrr “sit down little ones it’s time to eat! Yep, you can have a slice of pizza honey absolutely! Not my little one though, get into your high chair so I can give you your nummy nummy baby foods!”