Femme is queer. Femme does not equal feminine lesbian attracted to masculine lesbian. Femme is autonomous and has nothing to do with who you bone. Femme is queer. Femme is not attached to lesbianism. Femme is not attached to sexual expression. Femme is it’s own queer gender expression. Femme is a queer gender expression. Femme is not attached to a binary. Femme is not an accessory. Femme does not live in the shadow or along the contingencies of someone else’s gender roles. Femme is intentional. Femme is not monolithic. Femme is authentic. Femme is queer. Femme is queer. Femme is does not have a prepackaged look. Femme can be inclusive of multiple gendered identities. Femme is not controlled by white expressions of gender OR white queer activism. Femme is not the same as feminine. Femme is not heteronormative. AT ALL. Femme is queer. Femme is radical. Femme is political. Femme is it’s own being. Femme does not live in someone else’s projection. Femme is not shaped or sculpted by someone else’s need or desire. Femme takes up it’s own space and lives in it’s own shape. Femme is queer. Femme is not stagnant. Femme moves around. Femme can be as loud as it wants. Femme is queer. Femme is not some binaried gender that non-femmes have ascended out of. Femme is not stuck in some archaic construct of gender. When you say you grew out of femme - thats condescending as fuck. Stop saying that shit. Femme is not some starting place. Femme is not arbitrary. Femme is complex. I can write books and books and books about femme. All hail femme. Some people know they are femme from the beginning. Some people grow into their femme. Femme is not a destination. Femme is an existence. Femme is growth. Femme is healing. Femme is reclaiming. Femme is queering. Femme is queer. Femme is dynamic. Femme is art and performance. Femme is intrinsic. Femme is SO FULL. Femme is a galaxy full of diverse expressions of gendered being. Femme is queer. Femme is queer queering queer. Recognize the brilliance and divinity of femme and pay respect. You’re welcome for our magical existence.

pero……..

I feel like the best time to bleach your hair if you have dark hair is if it’s already long, or short and you plan on keeping it that way; because that bleach fries all your tips and new growth and by the time it starts getting longer, it’s brittle and breaks off 😰