I'm so sorry I've been a silent reader, I always want to coment but I love reading all the interactions you have with everyone and I always see someone who expresses what I'm thinking so I don't wanna be repetitive, but I GOTTA SAY SOMETHING! I mean, lot's of things really but I was equating on re-reading HW all over again when it's over (as if I don't already do it on the daily) but in the regards to the last chapter, and all that you've been trying not to say but actually saying, I have many thoughts, but the biggest one is that ex-wife did not cheat on Jk! Because, for many reasons but the one that makes me more sure is the way his parents approach it, like, I imagine that if girly cheated on babyboy that anger would be more prominent, right? Even if it was a little while ago, it is still relatively recent/fresh, so the pity and the condolences lead me to think AND ALSO oh my goodnes, also when you said we would probably feel anger initially and then maybe pity for the ex wife, when we finally get the lore, that makes think that it was something that cannot make us completely blame it on her, or that it wasn't something so heinous, and that girly just really just fell out of love, and that, that is the most tragic to me, because if she had cheated, it would be cut and dry, like, you did something really wrong and now you're done. But as some ladies were saying also, maybe as he ascended in his career, work took the first place, and neglect is felt deep. But the one thing I cannot be lenient on is that she abandoned the children, that is the one think that makes her very bad in any scenario. However, โจ๏ธthe bedroomโจ๏ธ that itches my mind, and I cannot figure it OUT FOR THE LIGE OF ME! But I'm so excited and also you are amazing, and such a beautiful human, and your work, your art really speaks to me, so thank you so much for sharing HW, cause it's been adding much joy (and certainly a handful of other emotions, cause this last few have left me on a thread) to my life, so thank you really hun. Also I'm so sorry for the length of this, and how it is all jumbled but that's what HW does to me I'm sorry. And also, I might be sharing more thoughts later, because I definitely need to express all my feelings to you about this
Oh my goodness, hello my love <3 This was such a fun and sweet ask for me to read, and I like your theories a lot. It doesn't make fully sense for the mother to have cheated, no. Seeing as his parents are approaching him with sympathy and speak of her very carefully, I feel like there would be more anger as well. Then again, they could just be keeping it inside for his sake? who knows. Her falling out of love would definitely be a much slower and more tragic descent into their eventual divorce. Then there's the theory of his work life taking over his personal one, perhaps she did feel neglected? At the end of the day, just like you mentioned, the fact that she abandoned the children will always remain. The bedroom has been very much in the background throughout the story but it's going to play a much larger role soon, so definitely stay tuned for that!
And thank you so much again. Writing HW has brought me so many emotions, I feel so close to not only the characters but to all of my readers as well. It makes me feel so blessed to know that you can experience the same emotions I did, it's like we're connected through the screen <3
Such a sweet and lovely message, thank you so much, I love you <3