So I recently met a guy and he's into fisting but he's also some what ashamed of it at times. I can't get over seeing my hand disappear up his guts and fucking his gaping maw of a hole. Some days he's super excited about it but others he's kinda shy about it. He says that he's very relaxed around me which helps, but I want him to be proud of his wrecked hole like you are. Any suggestions on things to say for encouragement?
I used to be just like what you’re describing.
My two cents would be to start by offering him a safe space with you to express this side of himself. That may go beyond just engaging in the act of fisting. I think all of us who do it enjoy certain specific aspects of it or certain acts, etc but might not always feel comfortable expressing those things. For example, I like there to be a certain aura of an intent to destroy my butthole, and various actions (punching, fast pull outs, etc) that go with that. He may not yet know what his specific fisting related turn ons are but I would bet money he does. Allow him to be comfortable expressing that to you.
The next step for me personally was finding community. There’s a growing number of guys on social media now that have built a certain amount of this that helped me get comfortable in orders of magnitude. I found it reassuring to find other butthole destruction enthusiasts!😉 Community for him might not be found in the same place.. maybe it’s social media, meeting a local circle of guys, going to a local fisting event, etc. Extending the safe space to other like minded, sane individuals was helpful for me, maybe there are ways you can find to help him with that.
I really hope that’s helpful and wish you guys the best. I believe fisting has far less potential for danger when you’re out of the shadows.
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