Pretty Rad

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"Not everyone who comes into our life is meant to stay. So stop holding onto people who clearly don’t want to be with you." - Unknown

God always steps in for me

One amazing benefit from embracing your dark feminine is genuinely no longer being afraid of losing people, setting boundaries or imposing standards. You no longer care who you lose, or who sees you as a villain or b*tch. Because if someone ends up losing you, it's because they didn't appreciate you the first time around, and chose to fumble the bag even after you made your boundaries & standards clear. And let me tell you, it's one of the most empowering and liberating feelings ever. Know your worth and act accordingly.

Do yourself a favor and do not pursue anything or anyone that isn't reciprocating the same effort back to you. If you notice that when you don't reach out to certain people the communication ceases, that is because those people don't see the value in you and there is a chance that you have inflated your place in their life and inflated the place they should have in yours. You deserve better than to be an afterthought, you deserve nourishing, loving relationships that don't feel like a constant drag on your part to keep them afloat.