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"AaAage GAaAAaaaaAAAAAAAAAP!!!!" 🤯🤯🤯 (when it's only like 4 or 5 years gap, yes I saw such comments on tiktok and reddit..)

"Ur ruining the [fem character]'s independence, she'd never love a man!!!" 😵

"THEY LITERALLY HAAAaAATte each OtheRrrR!!!" 😱 (if they were both males, they'd go "WOOOWWWWWW ENEMIES TO LOVERRRRRSSS!!!!" or "THEY HAVE SO MUCH POTENTIAL/BEST DYNAMICS!!!")

"They're SIBLINGS CODED EWWWW!!!" 😱🤢

"They're so SIBLINGS!!!" 🤮🤮🤮

"THEY'RE LITERALLY FRIENDS!!!" 😱

"[The male character] looks better/has a better chemistry with [another male character]!!!" Or "[The fem character] has better chemistry with [another fem character]!!!!" (Who are usually friends btw)

"THEY'RE LITERALLY GAY/LESBIAN FOR EACH OTHER!!! It is vEry IMPLIIiiIiiiIIIED!!!!" 😡😡😡

"THEY WERE NEVER CANONNNN!!!!"

"EWWWW GROSS!! How can you ship them!!!"

"THEY LITERALLY SAW EACH OTHER FOR OOoaoOoNCe!!!"

"You're shipping them just bc they look good together, NOTHING MOREEEE!!!!" (When they actually do literally the same with gay ships)

"SHE'S LIKE HIS MoThERrrrRRrRrrRRRR!!!" (One of the most stupid reason I ever heard.. I'm talking about Blade and Baiheng)

It doesn't matter if the ship is canon or not, they'll find million reasons to hate a male x fem ship, while they can't find at least one reason to hate a yaoi/yuri ship..

I hate how ppl are hypocritical here, just bc no one can see who tf is sitting behind that screen.

I do have my fav yaoi and yuri ships, I also have fem x male ships, and I never minded any ship tbh, if u like this ship/if u ship them, go on, it's oki.

BUT the way they fight against any straight ship makes my mind boil, like wtf bro? Who said straight ships are worse than gay ships, and who tf said gay ships are the worst? Bruh why tf do you even bother yourself to hate a fictional sht?

Tbh I respect almost every ship, especially when ppl aren't being mean, but man most of fandoms I see on reddit and other sites are so ass I swear.

I never had an argument about ships tbh, but I see and read the comments and fights in the posts talking about such stuff.

Like when the fck did straight ships became something boring or ass? Why do ppl even do this I don't understand? Why can't ppl like or AT LEAST respect other ships? Is it just me who likes both ships, straight and gay? Why ppl can't do the same idk?

I was a HUGE fan of satosugu, spent hours looking for fanarts and doujinshi/comics, but when I saw how fans are talking about them/or how they treat their ship comparing to others, I started to hate myself..

Like, you care about friendship when it comes to straight ships, but there's no meaning of friendship between two males or two women? I genuinely feel bad for those people bc bruh.. you need a therapy.

I don't mind any ship, honestly, as long as people aren't being ass about it, canon or not, I respect all ships as long as I see the same from others. BUT when ppl start being ass, idk I start to HATE these ships I swear..

I was even worried, like.. am I being a homophobic? No, bc I do like yaoi/yuri ships.. then why i hate some of other yaoi ships..? BECAUSE OF THE DAMN FANDOM. I'm not even gonna talk about danren shit, one of the biggest shit I ever seen, I swear. I never minded the ship, I even liked it, but again I started hating it when I saw how ppl literally despise Baiheng and blade ship.. why? Bruh, why? No, I don't even need an answer bc I'm tired of reading this shit in comments under every post containing a straight ship.

Nounou kissed Louli on the cheek, and ppl immediately started "YEEEEES LESBIANS!!!" like bruh I don't mind it, I like the ship honestly, it's cute and gives me a lot of fluffy vibes, kind of a happy romantic relationship, but why when someone says I see them just as friends everyone starts barking "are u blind?" "She literally kissed her on the cheek, ur saying you'd do the same with ur friend?" Yes, I would. If u guys were not so weird.

In general, I wanna say, i like both ships, I have a list full of both straight and gay ships, but i can't stand how people act so hypocritically and usually stand against females.. bruh, if you hate females, just say it, no ones gonna beat you for it. We don't even know who u are. You're sitting behind a screen and nobody sees you, so why are you so coward? Just admit that you hate girls.

What surprises me the most, is that women also do the same, not all of them ofc, I'm talking about the majority I've seen on the internet.

Again, I respect all the ships/opinions/fandoms, as long as u guys aren't being ass :) if u start being an ass I'll probably stop respecting YOU firstly, then I'll stop liking/respecting the ship ur trying to defend with the weakest arguments..

Someone has to say this..

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