The Mosis Cafe

I don’t mean “pretend everything is fine all the time” but don’t let yourself engage in - or especially start - that low-level bitching that so quickly becomes a habit. Try and find something positive to say if you’re struggling to make conversation, and if you can’t then express your opinion plainly. Don’t talk about being annoyed by something, talk about being disappointed. Don’t be the person who is always tearing stuff down.

I cannot tell you how unattractive it is when somebody around you whines or is negative a lot, and once someone notices you’re doing it, they can’t un-notice. Also people will stop wanting to be open and honest about how they feel about something around you in case you’re negative about it.