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do you guys ever like forget you're interested in something until you start engaging with it again and you go "oh wait i'm like crazy crazy about this yeah"
Me, finding Tumblr again. Literally explaining it to my 10-years-younger coworker about how great this place used to be.
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If you're fifteen or older an still sleep with a stuffed animal please reblog this.
i stopped focusing so much on how i was being perceived and starting focusing on how i was perceiving myself and treating myself in my own mind body and soul. self love and discovery is necessary at a time like this.
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My dear lgbt+ kids,
Just a gentle reminder: It’s not your job to provide free online therapy to people.
The anonymity of the internet can make it easier to talk about heavy topics like mental health struggles or trauma. While that can be a good thing, it also comes with a dangerous side effect: Some people assume that it’s safe and okay to dump all their problems on their internet friends (or even on random strangers online).
You may be cool with giving advice to someone who questions their gender - and they just assume they can also send you messages with vivid details of the abuse they experienced or pictures of their self-harm wounds.
The problem with that is not only that you are in no way qualified or trained to properly help people in these situations (there are good reasons why it takes at least seven years to become a licensed therapist! It requires so much more than just “letting them vent to you”.)
The even bigger issue is that it can also negatively impact YOUR mental health. Even if you are very willing to help them (you may even be proud of yourself for being the person they trust): it can very quickly become overwhelming. A licensed therapist knows how to protect their own mental health while listening to someone talk about deeply traumatic experiences - you do not.
You just get confronted with these topics with no preparation, no coping mechanisms and no deeper knowledge on it. That’s a recipe for disaster, especially if you are a teenager and/or have your own mental health issues/trauma you struggle with. It can trigger panic attacks, feelings of hopelessness, flashbacks to your own traumatic memories, nightmares etc.
Long story short: It’s not only okay to have boundaries when it comes to these online conversations - it’s necessary. You are allowed to say “I don’t feel comfortable talking about this” etc. You’re even allowed to block them if they won’t stop.
You are not a bad friend if you refuse to play therapist for them. It doesn’t mean you don’t care about them or that you hate mentally ill people. You are just protecting yourself.
With all my love,
Your Tumblr Dad
P.S: This letter is about boundaries - and boundaries are very individual. There are situations in which both people are comfortable with discussing heavy topics. The point of this letter is certainly not “Never ask for advice or talk about your problems ever”. It’s just a reminder that it’s okay to say no to conversations that make you uncomfortable or overwhelm you.
I need schools to understand that accessibility is not optional! You should always have audio versions of textbooks available, regardless of whether or not there are visually impaired students in class! You should make sure a website works on all devices before making it mandatory! You should put trigger warnings on everything! Disability accommodations are not hard, they are not degrading anyone’s quality of learning, and THEY ARE NOT OPTIONAL
love is so embarrassing . also the only thing that matters
why are so many people on this post saying things like “oh so what abt aromantic people then 🙄” like um… stumbling as u give up your seat for an elderly lady on the bus. stroking your friend’s hair as they cry in your arms. someone you care abt making you a long lovely playlist of songs you might like. attentively listening to your sibling as they talk excitedly about something they care abt. the sound of hundreds of people in unison singing a song they love at a concert. someone peeling a clementine and saving half of it for themselves and giving the other half to you. letting your cat crawl all over you even though her claws are scratchy. sitting in comfortable silence with someone. the pride shining in your grandfather’s eyes when you facetime him and tell him abt what you’ve been up to. taking a sip of your friend’s boba. people grinning at you when u blow out the candles on your birthday cake… these things aren’t love to you? you guys don’t consider that love? really? truly?
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Hitting a rough patch does not erase the progress you have made.
if you pick up on small things people do, like a small shift in tone, not being totally stoked, seeming disinterested, WHATEVER;
its More likely than not that the person isn't: judging you, disinterested in what you have to say, or doesn't like you.
it probably means that this person is having a tough day, is focused on something else, or tired, something like that.
lots of times if you just brush it off and go about your day, that person will talk to you later and be totally fine with you!
Don't assume people have a problem with you, just keep being nice and cordial. I've found that this really helps when it comes to stuff like rejection sensitive dysphoria and depression, because actually, people like you more than you think.
people who text me when I’m sleeping or at work have no idea how happy it makes me like finishing work and reading cute messages or waking up and reading sweet messages like I can’t think of anything better REALLY
this is why i love tumblr. no where else would i find something beautiful and motivational followed by something entirely stupid. i love this place.
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my wife learned last night that groundhog day is about one specific groundhog in Pennsylvania and then she asked "what happens when the groundhog dies" and I had to gently explain that they just get a new groundhog who then becomes the new Punxsutawney Phil
So some town in fuck ass no where was like hey we use a dirty ground beaver to tell the future and the rest of the country was like OH FUCK we HAVE to get in on that so much so that THOUSANDS of people flock to see this??? I thought it was like just a fun thing that the mayor of most towns would do??? which i guess doesn't make it better but like i thought it was like a holiday parade or whatever like sure there's the big one but towns have their own small ones but that isn't the case??????? There's just one very special groundhog who gets its own day? How do they pick a replacement? Is it like next of kin or is there some kind of groundhog contest like a dog show where the very best groundhog is chosen ??? Or do they just find a random groundhog and call it a day (ba dum tsss) but for real knowing this is so specific to one town makes this all so much stranger to me honestly
Like and reblog to give phil his groundhog punch. Ignore to slay the varmint.
