If you don't understand which side of the chain truly has the power you don't understand Bdsm.
I'm his handler because he chooses to submit to me. He follows my rules because they are the rules he agreed to. I have control because he believes I deserve it. I punish him, mark his body and use him because he allows it. I own him because he gave himself to me. And all of this can end entirely by his decision at any time.















