Never say die

Go on Anonymous and tell me one thing you've been too scared to tell me, but have always wanted to say.

But I don’t want small talk. Text me, and without saying hello, tell me why you got so angry at your sister this morning. Tell me why you have a scar shaped like Europe on the left side of your neck. Send me paragraphs about the time you spent at your Grandmother’s house that one summer. Call me when I am half sleep and tell me why you believe in God. Tell me about the first time you say your Dad cry. Go on for hours about things that may not seem important because I promise that  I’ll be hanging onto every word you say. Tell me everything. I don’t want someone who just talks about the weather. 

friendly advice to not revolve your life around one person, one feeling, one place, one memory, one problem. the complexity of life and the diversity of the world is beautiful and you have the right to explore it. do not settle for less. you deserve better.

“A lover doesn’t discourage your growth. A lover says, ‘I see who you are today, I cannot wait to see who you become tomorrow.’”

I want a girlfriend who supports the absolute shit out of me.