Mantis

I made this account to have a little fun while my other roleplay blog is on a bit of a hiatus. I had zero intentions of crossing paths, interfering with storylines, or even trying to overshadow @definitelybuckybarnes . A lot of people like 1940s Bucky so I thought it would be a fun way to pass some time in DMs. No harm no foul.

I was sent the request for identification the morning I made the blog, to which I complied. I didnt do anything with this blog until later in the afternoon, when I reblogged a post from @definitelydaytonwhite that was about 1940s Bucky. Immediately after that reblog I was sent the first DM from @definitelybakermeggi . I apologized and asked a few questions to get a better understanding and to see if there was something I could do without deleting my blog. The mod suggested that I speak with the first Bucky, to which I did. I apologized and asked if we could come to a solution and....well...this is what I got.

Now I've heard things about this particular group, a mix of good and bad. I've also heard things about this mod, all bad. I chose to ignore and try to establish myself into this particular roleplay group to have fun. Again, I had zero intentions of even interacting with the mod of Bucky.

Should I have chosen a different character? Probably but almost every Sebastian Stan and Chris Evans character are taken. That doesnt mean that the mod can throw a temper tantrum like a two year old because someone has the same pink sippy cup as them.

The stream of messages I received showed me a few things. The mod is incredibly whiny, they send others to do their work for them, they are terrified of someone overshadowing their Bucky. I feel that this entire situation could have been handled far differently, and in a less confrontational and possessive mannor. No one wants your Bucky. No one cares that much I promise.

I have been in this scene for a good while now and I have seen things. I've heard things. I've seen groups split apart multiple times and there's always been one person at the center. I've quietly ignored it and have stayed in the corner by myself but I was absolutely appalled by the reaction a new character received. I understand, slightly, where they are coming from but at the same time it is not that big of a deal and as Taylor Swift would say

@definitelyhalcarter @definitely-dailynews @definitelymera @definitelystevengrantrogers @definitelydaytonwhite @definitelypenelopebeck @definitelychrisevans @definitelysebastianstan

I made this account to have a little fun while my other roleplay blog is on a bit of a hiatus. I had zero intentions of crossing paths, interfering with storylines, or even trying to overshadow @definitelybuckybarnes . A lot of people like 1940s Bucky so I thought it would be a fun way to pass some time in DMs. No harm no foul.

I was sent the request for identification the morning I made the blog, to which I complied. I didnt do anything with this blog until later in the afternoon, when I reblogged a post from @definitelydaytonwhite that was about 1940s Bucky. Immediately after that reblog I was sent the first DM from @definitelybakermeggi . I apologized and asked a few questions to get a better understanding and to see if there was something I could do without deleting my blog. The mod suggested that I speak with the first Bucky, to which I did. I apologized and asked if we could come to a solution and....well...this is what I got.

Now I've heard things about this particular group, a mix of good and bad. I've also heard things about this mod, all bad. I chose to ignore and try to establish myself into this particular roleplay group to have fun. Again, I had zero intentions of even interacting with the mod of Bucky.

Should I have chosen a different character? Probably but almost every Sebastian Stan and Chris Evans character are taken. That doesnt mean that the mod can throw a temper tantrum like a two year old because someone has the same pink sippy cup as them.

The stream of messages I received showed me a few things. The mod is incredibly whiny, they send others to do their work for them, they are terrified of someone overshadowing their Bucky. I feel that this entire situation could have been handled far differently, and in a less confrontational and possessive mannor. No one wants your Bucky. No one cares that much I promise.

I have been in this scene for a good while now and I have seen things. I've heard things. I've seen groups split apart multiple times and there's always been one person at the center. I've quietly ignored it and have stayed in the corner by myself but I was absolutely appalled by the reaction a new character received. I understand, slightly, where they are coming from but at the same time it is not that big of a deal and as Taylor Swift would say

@definitelyhalcarter @definitely-dailynews @definitelymera @definitelystevengrantrogers @definitelydaytonwhite @definitelypenelopebeck @definitelychrisevans @definitelysebastianstan

The drama didn’t affect me directly so I didn’t pass judgement as NO ONE NOT DIRECTLY INVOLVED SHOULD, but I watched as other people bashed that person, people who didn’t even interact with them joined in on blacklisting them from the community, HATE TALK RUNNING WILD. Why? Because people were easily manipulated into believing that person did wrong. Again, I ask, sound familiar? Yes, I think you’re starting to get it now.

So I continued on. I had a role play partner, stayed in the server, watched as people were left out and drama after drama circulated. Let me tell you how fun that’s not, but at the heart of every single drama was one blog in particular. One mod. Want to venture a guess? I’ll tell you. This person has several blogs. Some you all interact with. One they try to keep super secret. Since I’m letting it all out, I’ll tell you. The blog and mod behind all the drama and manipulation. @definitelybuckybarnes . Aka @definitelylancetucker Aka, @stuck-y-together Aka, @definitelydaytina . Your beloved Christina. Tina. Whatever she goes by these days. Yes, she is all those blogs and more. The master manipulator of blogs and characters.I was told you say people are jealous because you got Bucky first. No one is jealous. You just treat people like shit and accuse them of god knows whatever fits to gain attention. That’s why people don’t like you.

Why am I spilling the tea? Because I’ve watched this happen time after time. Every drama that happens, she’s at the center. Even now, I encouraged someone that joined the community months ago and they’ve been cast out. Why? I’m sure you were told lies and manipulated. Did you get proof? I’m willing to bet it was all he said she said, but it worked cause you bought it. I know, because I’ve seen it. You’re all sheep and if you don’t agree with Bucky/daytina/Tina, you too will be shunned and blocked.

I saw the post for the New Years party. Does anyone else find that a little fucked up? You can only come via invite and all plus ones have to be approved. Excuse me, but that sounds like a dictatorship. Conform or you won’t be accepted. Again, manipulative and also bullying. Something they swear they don’t do, but they have and are currently doing it still because all you sheep are following her lead and giving her audience. Some things never change.

Have you ever wondered why there are so many abandoned blogs, my own included? Because we were all treated like shit. We didn’t conform. We were made to feel like we didn’t matter if we had a difference in opinion. Some of us even went and created a new community. Is it any better? I don’t know because I have given up role playing because of how I continually see people treated, myself included. I no longer wanted to be part of the toxic behavior that fuels this community, any community, but if I’m going down, I’m taking Bucky/Tina with me! I’ve sat back and watched silently. I follow many of you. I’ve had more than one person come to me about your toxic behavior. It’s funny how the people you’ve cast out or banned have found their way to my inbox. Enough is enough, already!

Your lies and manipulation and dictatorship need to come to an end. You are treating people like shit for what? Because someone doesn’t want to be told what to do? You’re not a god! Quit acting like one. You don’t own or run the community, yet you behave like you do. There are good people behind the blogs that you’ve cast out, they’re just free thinkers and aren’t easily manipulated. Those people you’ve hurt, they’ll recover and carry on. You’ll still be the vile person you’ve been because you’re a spoiled entitled brat that cries if she doesn’t get her way. When will you seriously grow up already? There’s your tea people.

Go ahead, block me. This has no effect on how I’ll sleep at night. This is an old blog I no longer use and it’s sole purpose is exposing the lies and manipulation you’ve all come to believe. My own definitely blog lays dormant and has for a long time. Good luck figuring out which one it is. I’m not accepting asks or messages. Once this is posted I’m logging out. You all need to figure out what to do. Continue to follow the lies and manipulation or start thinking for yourself. I guarantee this will happen again and keep happening because it always does. You’re either part of the problem or solution and I don’t see anyone being the voice of reason and knocking someone from their high horse, that would require you to stand up to the monstrosity.

I’m tagging all definitely blogs old and new. Also throwing some of the without a doubt blogs in as well. They’ll be happy to know someone finally called you out on your shit! And kudos to those who haven’t chosen sides. At least there’s hope that some of you can’t be controlled.

There was something someone told me once and it rings true. Food for thought maybe. “Becareful of the company you keep. How they talk about someone else is exactly how they talk about you.” Keep that in mind, sheep. “We change people through conversation, not through censorship.” Maybe some of you should brush up on your pop culture and listen to the words of Jay-Z.

Just an FYI this Mantis blog is an original “definitely Blog”. I’ve been here from the start of the definitely blogs. I’ve SEEN EVERYTHING. I KNOW EVERYTHING. And because of that I’ve changed my blog to a “withoutadoubt Blog”. Take that as you will. Block me, send me hate. Whatever. I’m not as active on here as I once was because of my real life and my roleplay partners life. But I still roleplay on other blogs and I still see everything. And I pay very close attention to those who are cruel to others.

The drama didn’t affect me directly so I didn’t pass judgement as NO ONE NOT DIRECTLY INVOLVED SHOULD, but I watched as other people bashed that person, people who didn’t even interact with them joined in on blacklisting them from the community, HATE TALK RUNNING WILD. Why? Because people were easily manipulated into believing that person did wrong. Again, I ask, sound familiar? Yes, I think you’re starting to get it now.

So I continued on. I had a role play partner, stayed in the server, watched as people were left out and drama after drama circulated. Let me tell you how fun that’s not, but at the heart of every single drama was one blog in particular. One mod. Want to venture a guess? I’ll tell you. This person has several blogs. Some you all interact with. One they try to keep super secret. Since I’m letting it all out, I’ll tell you. The blog and mod behind all the drama and manipulation. @definitelybuckybarnes . Aka @definitelylancetucker Aka, @stuck-y-together Aka, @definitelydaytina . Your beloved Christina. Tina. Whatever she goes by these days. Yes, she is all those blogs and more. The master manipulator of blogs and characters.I was told you say people are jealous because you got Bucky first. No one is jealous. You just treat people like shit and accuse them of god knows whatever fits to gain attention. That’s why people don’t like you.

Why am I spilling the tea? Because I’ve watched this happen time after time. Every drama that happens, she’s at the center. Even now, I encouraged someone that joined the community months ago and they’ve been cast out. Why? I’m sure you were told lies and manipulated. Did you get proof? I’m willing to bet it was all he said she said, but it worked cause you bought it. I know, because I’ve seen it. You’re all sheep and if you don’t agree with Bucky/daytina/Tina, you too will be shunned and blocked.

I saw the post for the New Years party. Does anyone else find that a little fucked up? You can only come via invite and all plus ones have to be approved. Excuse me, but that sounds like a dictatorship. Conform or you won’t be accepted. Again, manipulative and also bullying. Something they swear they don’t do, but they have and are currently doing it still because all you sheep are following her lead and giving her audience. Some things never change.

Have you ever wondered why there are so many abandoned blogs, my own included? Because we were all treated like shit. We didn’t conform. We were made to feel like we didn’t matter if we had a difference in opinion. Some of us even went and created a new community. Is it any better? I don’t know because I have given up role playing because of how I continually see people treated, myself included. I no longer wanted to be part of the toxic behavior that fuels this community, any community, but if I’m going down, I’m taking Bucky/Tina with me! I’ve sat back and watched silently. I follow many of you. I’ve had more than one person come to me about your toxic behavior. It’s funny how the people you’ve cast out or banned have found their way to my inbox. Enough is enough, already!

Your lies and manipulation and dictatorship need to come to an end. You are treating people like shit for what? Because someone doesn’t want to be told what to do? You’re not a god! Quit acting like one. You don’t own or run the community, yet you behave like you do. There are good people behind the blogs that you’ve cast out, they’re just free thinkers and aren’t easily manipulated. Those people you’ve hurt, they’ll recover and carry on. You’ll still be the vile person you’ve been because you’re a spoiled entitled brat that cries if she doesn’t get her way. When will you seriously grow up already? There’s your tea people.

Go ahead, block me. This has no effect on how I’ll sleep at night. This is an old blog I no longer use and it’s sole purpose is exposing the lies and manipulation you’ve all come to believe. My own definitely blog lays dormant and has for a long time. Good luck figuring out which one it is. I’m not accepting asks or messages. Once this is posted I’m logging out. You all need to figure out what to do. Continue to follow the lies and manipulation or start thinking for yourself. I guarantee this will happen again and keep happening because it always does. You’re either part of the problem or solution and I don’t see anyone being the voice of reason and knocking someone from their high horse, that would require you to stand up to the monstrosity.

I’m tagging all definitely blogs old and new. Also throwing some of the without a doubt blogs in as well. They’ll be happy to know someone finally called you out on your shit! And kudos to those who haven’t chosen sides. At least there’s hope that some of you can’t be controlled.

There was something someone told me once and it rings true. Food for thought maybe. “Becareful of the company you keep. How they talk about someone else is exactly how they talk about you.” Keep that in mind, sheep. “We change people through conversation, not through censorship.” Maybe some of you should brush up on your pop culture and listen to the words of Jay-Z.

Just an FYI this Mantis blog is an original “definitely Blog”. I’ve been here from the start of the definitely blogs. I’ve SEEN EVERYTHING. I KNOW EVERYTHING. And because of that I’ve changed my blog to a “withoutadoubt Blog”. Take that as you will. Block me, send me hate. Whatever. I’m not as active on here as I once was because of my real life and my roleplay partners life. But I still roleplay on other blogs and I still see everything. And I pay very close attention to those who are cruel to others.

After thinking on it and realizing that the toxic people in this community will never change me and some friends have decided to make a new RP community. I will no longer be a definitely blog, my new url will be wandamaximoffwithoutadoubt. Anyone else tired of this bullshit going on around here is free to join. All except the like 3 or 4 people here that are too far gone for apologies. You know who you are. And if you're wondering if it's you go on and ask because I really don't give a fuck anymore about hurting your feeling because you could give a shit less about other people's.

The first reason is you guys think that because you are whoever the hell you think you are that you are the one who gets to make "rules" or dictate how others Roleplay. You bully people into submission and if they don't you leave them out. News Flash: You're not anyone's God, you don't rule Tumblr, and no one should have to worship you in order to have fun and not get kicked to the curb.

The second reason is you guys can not take any type of criticism but you sure as hell are quick to dish it out. And you don't care about the repercussions or how you made that person feel. If you can't take it, then don't give it out.

The third reason is you feel like you are always right and you're not. You don't give people a chance to defend themselves or explain why they did what they did. Or if you do it's just for show and you do not listen. Once your mind is made up you don't care anymore. New Flash: You are a human being so treat others how you would like to be treated.

Orion - Alnitak, Mintaka and Alnilam

Parenting a baby Groot vs……

We finally get some alone time, and my poor overworked husband decides its a great time to read a comic written about himself. It’s more typical on the weeknights than you can imagine.

We finally get some alone time, and my poor overworked husband decides its a great time to read a comic written about himself. It’s more typical on the weeknights than you can imagine.

We finally get some alone time, and my poor overworked husband decides its a great time to read a comic written about himself. It’s more typical on the weeknights than you can imagine.

We finally get some alone time, and my poor overworked husband decides its a great time to read a comic written about himself. It’s more typical on the weeknights than you can imagine.

We finally get some alone time, and my poor overworked husband decides its a great time to read a comic written about himself. It’s more typical on the weeknights than you can imagine.