as someone who's been through this it's so saddening to see people spend their lives hating themselves and picking apart every single thing they do. take this as a reminder that no one cares as much as you do! come to peace with yourself and learn to accept your whole being. anyone could leave at any moment, but you're always going to be left with yourself, so why spend all your life hating who you are instead of accepting yourself and learning to enjoy the time you spend alone? being "alone" doesn't mean you're lonely, it means you're comfortable in your own presence and don't need other people's validation. be fine with being alone because it's YOU, it's not a stranger. learn new things about yourself, fall in love over and over again with who you are because that's your true, authentic self. stop trying to be someone you're not, being yourself and living as your own unique person IS the "niche" you're looking to achieve. don't take shit from anyone else, the only validation you need is from yourself. because if you don't take care of and love yourself, who will? people copy and follow what they see, the more in love you are with yourself the more people will start to love, appreciate and see you for who you truly are. you create your own reality so instead of opposing yourself, start working with yourself and give yourself the reality and future you deserve.
