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wedding planning with your f/o...

❤︎ would they want something specific? would you go traditional or have something more unique?

❤︎ what colour scheme would you go for? are there specific flowers or decorations you would want?

❤︎ and what kind of cake would you get? or will you have something different?

❤︎ who would you invite and what clothes would you wear?

❤︎ is there a specific playlist/song you want to have?

❤︎ and maybe most importantly, what would your rings look like? :3

Courtney is the one who handles filing taxes and making doctor's appointments for everyone.🤭

Lol why did Duncan go w these two in the canoe boney island thingamajig episode

PS: Everyone is allowed to selfship in whatever way they want!! For selfshippers that feel like many of the posts you see are unrealistic and don’t reflect you and your F/O’s relationship, here are some honest and nuanced messages.

“Your F/O would never get angry with you.” -> When your F/O gets mad, they have a special tone reserved only for you. It holds you gently even when it’s firm, and maintains control without sacrificing honesty. The depth of their affection for you is evident in so many ways, including the way they approach conflict with you. Even when the feelings might be negative, you can always see the love attached to them.

“Your F/O would never think you’re weird.” -> Your F/O LOVES how weird you are!! Your uniqueness is what draws them to you, and sets you apart from the sea of people they could have chosen. Whether or not your quirks get on their nerves sometimes is insignificant; they’re just so happy to have them all memorized.

“Your F/O would never overstep your boundaries!” -> Your F/O watches you and listens to you closely. Even if they’re not perfect, they notice small changes within you and care about you—even if it means adapting to things they’re not used to doing. They intend to keep learning more about you for the rest of their life, and there’s no sign of them ever getting bored. They always repair things with you, and this will never ever change.

“Your F/O would never feel put out by you.” -> You are worth the effort. Every single time. Even when the tasks themselves feel burdensome, you are always worth the effort it takes to help you and take care of you. It is paid back tenfold every time they get to see you joyful and healthy. [Disabled self shippers I am looking at you!]

Turn around Courtney. You can’t ignore it forever.

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