I've always loved the way you went about expressing opinions on trans Jax previously, they were really respectful and even now acknowledged it turned out canon without anger! So it sucks you're still getting rude asks but now from the other side. Both sides are too aggressive about any opinion or criticism on it. Personally I feel like although Jax is comfirmed transfem I still think the way it went about it wasn't the greatest. The show introduced the trans theme late and was too blurry in the other real hints shown literally just one other episode that it could've easily been seen as fragile masculinity or even transmasc. It made the reveal just "oh, ok" for me and feel like it came out of left field imo and almost like a headcanon that was adapted last minute (not what happened I'm sure it was always meant to be). I don't expect him to outright say "I'm trans" or give Jax a happy ending in the show but I think it really could've made the themes feel more present with him from the start and not wait until the final to actually explore it. If it were something the show went into earlier and more than just two episodes I think I would've really enjoyed the journey regardless of a sad end so I can't lie it feels a little disappointing what it could've been and how they didn't go all the way and have human Jax transitioned
I feel bad I don't really like how it was done since I'm trans so shouldn't I be glad for a trans character? Yet I feel unsatisfied with it and have a hard time seeing Jax as trans even now especially when some are now making it Jax's whole personality, are only now liking Jax for it, or acting condescending to people admitting they were wrong. I'm glad other people are happy about it but it sucks expressing a different opinion and criticism on it gets you grouped with the jerks
Hi Anon! Firstly, thank you for understand my point of view, it is really hard to express my own opinions these days without being shit on and I appreciate you actually taking the time to understand what I was trying to say about Jax's gender identity.
Secondly, unfortunately no matter what you do or say there will always be that one Krabby Kathy (Did you get the reference?) who is never satisfied or has some bullshit to spout just because they aren't happy with what they got. Sometimes, I just ignore them or block them because honestly, no point in starting conflict especially if the other person is a delusional idiot who can't comprehend what is right or wrong so just best to not interact with them sometimes.
Thirdly, I perfectly understand how you feel. I accept Jax being a closeted transfem but even I have to admit it didn't feel like it was being executed properly. I will admit as a cis woman I could tell there were subtle hints in episode 5 such as him losing his tail or that maid dress and the fact his room is quite literally the colors of the trans flag, but I always thought him wearing the maid dress was him being embarrassed that he was being forced to wear a girly costume and not him being a closeted trans woman. I always interpreted that Jax had a fragile masculinity especially when in the finale he stated that his dad made him think he was less of a man I thought it tied into him not being "masculine" enough which is why he would pick on the females in the circus to make him seem like a masculine man.
Like most people my main issue with Jax being a closeted trans woman is the fact that she is basically the stereotypical misogynistic man bully's woman but turns out she is actually acting like this because of her closeted transfem nature which let's be honest, is NOT a good representation for trans people. Which may be why you as a trans person may not be satisfied with this especially near the end Jax ends up abstracting because they never got to actually transition in the end and it just seems like Jax being trans was all it was to her character. Not only that, but this just further proves that Jax truly is Goose's self insert, he doesn't feel like his own character anymore and that made their entire character tasteless. Not to mention his irl self never transitioned either, so it just kinda feels idk, pointless.
Idk how to explain it but this is just how I feel.














