float on in, little ones

This is my caregiver blog! My main little blog is @soft-blurry-bun I'm new to the whole caregiving thing, but I decided to give it a go!

Everyone is welcome. Dms are open, asks are open, and friends are more than welcome!

I just have some boundaries: NO MINORS, NO NSFW. As I am an adult and feel uncomfortable with minors interacting. And this is a safe space for me and kiddos. I will block freely if you make me uncomfortable or even cross my page if you are NSFW or a MIK or anything of the sort.

YOU CAN FIND MY SORTA IN DEPTH DNI ON MY LITTLE BLOG!! So you have NO EXCUSE for following me if you're NSF, or if you CROSS TAG NSFW WITH SFW AGERE. unless you don't read.

I'll be posting scenarios, lists, and other things, just like on my main little blog. Requests are open for any scenarios or posts that you'd like to see! :)

#mama haunts – caregiver and regressor scenarios

Come on in little ones, its nice and cozy here ♡

Carer who makes sure their baby is comfy and cozy in bed with their stuffies on gaurd so they can protect then during the night

Carer who stays in their room all night so their little one isn't alone

Carer who sings softly to them and tells them stories even in the dead of night so they'll feel comforted

Carer who reassures them that they're so so strong to deal with such loud noises, cause everyone gets scared of loud noises sometimes, even mama/papa/bubba.

Carer who makes their little one tea or hot chocolate to soothe them to sleep if all else fails

Carer who let's their baby cry and snuggle into them when thoughts and anxieties get too big to keep inside.

Carer who tells them that all of this will pass, but let's them feel their emotions cause they're valid for feeling this way

Carer who stays up with them all night, but makes sure to make them nap during the day so that their little one gets proper rest.

Carer who makes them their favorite breakfast the next morning to cheer them up

Carer who never ever lets them think they're a burden for being scared of "not so scary things". (They're indeed very scary. I myself hate thunder too) :)

Remember babies! Yall are loved <3 and don't ever let anyone tell you that your fears ain't valid. All your fears are valid, and everyone who takes care of yall from those fears is the bestest person ever!! And if you gotta take care of yourself, then I applaud you! Yall are so so strong and loved ♡

Could I get a Caregiver X Baby that can't sleep at night because the weather makes them panic which causes them to stay up/crying/hide under the covers?

Thank you! (no worries if not!)

Carer who always knows how to calm their little down whenever they're having a tantrum

Carer who doesn't let their little one's see their reactions, always being blank to not provoke more bratting.

Carer who always is a shoulder to lean on in case the bratting comes from big emotions.

Carer who learns their coping skills if bratting is from big emotions.

Carer who never ever raises their voice, no matter how loudly their little one's bratting is.

Carer who respects their little one's boundaries when bratting. (no touching, no big emotions, no harsh sarcasm, etc)

Carer who never lets bratting get in the way of their own day.

Carer who never leaves them alone to brat, even if bratting is intentional.

Carer who always loves their little one, no matter how bratty they are.

Carer who reassures their little one of their worries. "I'm here for you, kiddo. Always."

Carer who believes pinky promises are the ultimate form of hope and promise when their little ones are anxious.

Carer who calls n texts them whenever their missing them, telling them they're always happy to double text and spam them.

Carer who holds their hand as a form of keeping them close.

Carer who banishes all the anxious thoughts with praise and reassurance, no matter how scary the thoughts are.

Carer who gives them chew and stim toys whenever they start to fidget or stim nervously from anxiety.

Carer who never leaves from their sight, always staying close, maybe a bit too close.

Carer who makes sure their little ones day is scheduled as planned and makes sure no plans are changed, even days before to ease anxiety.

Carer who carries extra stuffies in their bag so their little one is comfortable with a friend.

Carer who wipes their tears and makes sure they're OK when they feel panicked.

Carer who takes the time to make their little ones soup, broth or noodles when they're feeling icky and feed them. And doesn't let them eat sweets cause they know their baby will regret it. And deals with their grumpy attitude when they can't have said Sweets.

Carer who bundles them up in blankets and let's them sleep on their lap when they're too cold

Carer who washes their stuffies so germs don't get on them. "They're just taking a bath, bub. And they'll be all clean just like you." :)

Carer who makes them take meds like icky cough syrup but it's ok cause they get their little ones favorite flavor of juice to chase it down.

Carer who cares for their extra sensitive babies who get more fussy and cry when they're sick.

Carers who don't let them go outside cause they're very protective of their babies getting more sick (it's summer) (they don't care). /lh

Carers who nap by them when the sniffles and coughs interupt their naptime/sleep.

Carers who clean up their messes when their tummy aches too much and reassures them. "it's ok, everyone gets sick and it's my job to help you get better, no matter the messes."

If you are kink, get OFF. do you see that word everyone? OFF. my page. :) do you understand what "do not interact means?" No? Should I spell it out for you?

Do not reblog. Do not like. Do not FOLLOW. I see you kink blogs following me.

Yall don't get it. 4 year Olds follow directions better than you 30 year Olds with kink pages. Congratulations. Do I have to DM every single one of you telling you to get off my page?

I am NOT anti kink. BUT. this is my CAREGIVER. AGE REGRESSION. PAGE. HELLO? Which will NOT be mixed with SFW age regression. I swear yall can't read. I am extremely strict with this because I HAVE TO BE.

Yall either can't read or simply don't give a f****. And I'm sick n tired of you weirdos thinking you can mix kink and agere.

Carer who sets scheduled eating times for baby/kiddo so they don't overeat at sporadic times

Carer who buys them those sectioned baby plates so they can eat good portions of different healthy foods

Carer who gets them mini packages of their fave food so they don't overindulge but still get the joy of eating their fave food

Carer who doesn't get mad at them when they binge or see wrappers/food stuff from a secret binge

Carer who doesn't shame them for what they eat

Carer who eats good portions with them so food isn't a scary event

Carer who reassures them that they're pretty/handsome no matter what, or that junk food won't be there for them, their carer will, or that it's ok to relapse, you're only human, etc

Love all my kiddos with BED. it's rough out here but one day you'll find other better coping mechanisms, no matter how long it takes or how many bumps in the road happen. People are there for you, and food is fuel and for happy times, not as a crutch. Remember that bubs! Nourish your body with the food it needs at appropriate amounts so you don't feel icky with tummy aches, and distract yourself in other ways such as cartoons, music, video games, and talking with a best friend c:

Time for a check in, tot!

Did you eat breakfast, lunch and hopefully dinner?

Yes? Awesome! You need to have those meals in order to do kid stuff like run around, play outside and so you grow big n strong. And if 3 meals was too daunting, 2 meals is perfect, and a snack too! Proud of you either way for eating well or facing your fears!

Did you drink water?

Yes? Awesome sauce!! Even mama has a hard time with this. But staying hydrated is key to not feeling dizzy, sick or icky! Make sure to keep a water bottle by you at all times, or even set alarms to drink, every 30 minutes! And if water ain't your thing, try eating hydrating fruits like watermelon, cantaloupe, pineapple n strawberries!

Did you do some chores?

Yeah? Good! Doing easy chores like folding laundry or cleaning the table is a great way to feel a sense of accomplishment! Gold star for every chore ya did ⭐️

Did you clean/organize your room?

Yea? Yippee! Now it might seem like a big task, even mama has trouble, but as long as you cleaned small parts like your desk or bed or shelf, then that's a great start! Start little by little, that's the way to go, kid. Great job! Now you're safe space really FEELS like a safe space!

Did you tell yourself that you're a great kiddo?

Yeah? Absolutely wonderful!! Babies and kiddos need to tell themselves this all the time! That you're loved, you're a great kid, and that you're doing good! No matter how small the effort, you're trying. And you're a great kiddo when you try <3 and If today you just tried to stay alive, then I applaud you kiddo and you're taking wonderful small steps! You're loved kid <3

Gold stars for all my kiddos who are doing their very best! No effort is too small! Keep up the wonderful work ! ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

Hello baby! Time for a Lil check in!

Did you remember to kiss your stuffies good morning?

Yes? Good job! They love you so so much and love you all equally!

Did you remember to drink water?

Yes? Good job! Gotta make sure baby stays hydrated to help nourish you n grow like a flower <3

Did you remember to take a nap?

Yes? Wonderful! Naps are important for Lil babies as it helps you recuperate to do more babie tasks!

Did you have a good cry?

Yes? Very good. Remember it's important, and not at all shameful to let out those big tears! Letting out your big feelings helps you feel better and happier. Bottling it all up makes you feel icky, and no one wants to feel icky!

Good job tiny! I hope you have a wonderful day tiny. Mama loves all you tiny ones!

Carer who makes their bed comfy with stuffie friends so their little one doesn't think they're alone when in bed all day

Carer who encourages going out to get some sun. "C'mon, little snail. You gotta get some sunbeams today!"

Carer who brings them their favorite food/drink to help them eat

Carer who cuddles them when thoughts get too rough

Carer who cleans them up when things go wrong. Gently, softly, because sad little ones aren't an inconvenience to their carers.

Carer who praises them immensely for the things they've done, even the small things others might brush off. Brushing teeth, brushing hair, eating 2 meals or snacks.

Carer who distracts them with their favorite things. Cartoons, coloring, favorite snacks, etc

Remember cuties! Struggling doesn't mean you're a bad baby. Overcoming the struggle one baby step at a time is the key. And if you slip up? No problem. No use crying over spilled milk <3 keep your head up, go through it one day at a time, and praise yourself (for the ones who don't have carers) for the things you did well today. And don't listen to the meanies! They just yap to yap (: love yall babies and kiddos!

-mama blurry

Carer who makes cute food animals to make sure their little ones eat

Carer who eats with them so they're not facing eating alone

Carer who makes strict rules on snacks and making eating a routine

Carer who rewards them for eating full meals when it gets too hard

Carer who joins in tea parties to help them eat (examples for tea party food: mini sandwiches, cucumbers with ranch, angel milk in teacups, crackers n cheese)

Carer who doesn't shame their little ones for not eating, but encourages them to try

Carer who loves their little one no matter how hard their struggling

We carers see you tiny ones who are struggling. Remember, food is your friend and helps nourish the body that helps you play, laugh and have fun <3. And when it gets too difficult, Remember that trying your best is always good enough, kiddos !

-mama blurry