FOR THE YOUNG GIRLS (AND ME) .ᐟ
Hey girl, this is a quick reminder: U are not the only one.
U might be chatting with the most loving older guy, but at the end of the day....it's just words. For someone looking for real connection and trust, (sadly like me) this is a raw reminder that u can easily be replaced.
U are not the sole source of his ego or his fantasy. His "sweet talk" is a repeatable and effective tactic he uses on any girl that fits the dynamic. These guys are looking for a superficial connection that doesn't demand emotional effort or commitment, ouch, I know...
He's probably juggling multiple similar interactions, meaning u're not unique on his schedule and can be replaced if the chat goes quiet or if someone else becomes "more accessible"
A shallow connection is way easier to cut and replace if the interaction gets too demanding or "heavy" (like when u share a real problem).
Make sure ur self-worth isn't tied to the intensity of a chat with a stranger who is probably online talking to five other girls right now and telling them the exact same thing he's telling u while he jerks off.
edit: this applies to both men and women! Take care of yourselves, take care of ur hearts
Stay safe. Sending love 🫂
