There's a lot of ppl using multiple pronouns that have their actual preferred ones and then the "I'm too tired to argue with ppl when they call me this" ones
Personally I have difficulty switching up pronouns on the fly so if I meet someone using multiple sets of pronouns I try to puzzle out which is which and call them the actual ones
Or sometimes I'll just ask them "hey soooooo which ones do you like ACTUALLY prefer" and it kinda feels dickish on paper but my batting average is really high
The most common situations for it are actually they/them enbies begrudgingly accepting the pronouns associated with their AGAB, and as actually she/her binary trans women that are constantly degendered but don't have any energy left to get upset at being called "they". So sometimes they just slap those pronouns alongside their actual ones.
If someone actually likes multiple pronouns used for them, but you still have difficulty switching up constantly, my usual strat is to figure out what other people are the least likely to refer to them with and use those.
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I'm MAYBE projecting a little bc my she/they -> she/her pronoun change marked the start of me becoming a mean trans feminist imo


















