The lies and the mist are not they but I.

"you can't just judge someone by their kinks" what about raceplay?

"kinks don't affect you unless you're the one engaging in it" what about raceplay?

"if you dislike seeing a kink just block or blacklist, it's not like it's hurting you" what about raceplay?

I think people refuse to ever bring it up on the "pro kink" side of things because it exposes such a glaring hole in the argument. If you are disseminating raceplay kink, you are willfully spreading racist ideas and exposing others to it. If you are engaging in this kink you are choosing to indulge your unhealthy racist beliefs about other races for your own pleasure, regardless of the mental toll that might have on you OR how it might affect your treatment of other people, especially underprivileged people, in your life. Spreading or sharing raceplay even within a kink-friendly space inherently makes that space unsafe for some people, namely people of color.

I think it's actually very easy to work out a nuanced stance on accepting Most kinks if you're willing to consider things like raceplay exist, because yeah...some kinks actually aren't okay. You cannot practice raceplay in a way that will not affect you. You cannot share content of it in a way that does not create an unsafe kink space for people of color. You NEED to understand that even within kink, some lines and boundaries need to be established, and it is not in fact anti-progressive to say this. It is in fact MORE progressive to oust raceplay weirdos from your kink spaces to protect people of color and LESS progressive to simply defend it under a "kink positive" flag.

Like not only should I, as a person of color, be free from the fetishization that is part and parcel of race-based kinks, I should not have to worry about it being disseminated in my communities or having kink positive spaces simply let it slide because it's "just a kink."

This is because topless equality has been a basic push from feminists for literally decades, until Radfems and NeoCons bonded over wanting a trans genocide less than a decade ago.

It's literally why the "no tits on tumblr" and other lesser SESTA/FOSTA consequences* like it were so jarring. It set back FORTY. YEARS. OF PROGRESS in the rights of people with breasts or perceived as women to wear the same clothes as people without.

Do not let conservatives lie to you about this. The majority of people in the us and the VAST majority of States recognize the right of people to not wear a damn shirt. It isn't obscenity, it isn't even nudity, it's just something pericis men are allowed that everyone else isn't.

Y'know.

Basic sexual discrimination.

I love to draw them when they were still happy, I neeeeeed the fluff

silent hill 2 fanart inspired by jacob’s ladder

give that knife/sword fight survivor nerve damage. give the character who was shot in the gut a stoma. give that fire survivor lung damage and an oxygen cannula. give that leg injury survivor a cane. give that starvation survivor gastroparesis. give that spinal injury survivor a manual chair or powerchair.