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I am brimming with emotions every goddamn day
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Thereâs almost TOO much going on in any given day to write any blog posts about it. I have thoughts, I have lots of thoughts, but nothing makes it to the dashboard.Â
I am brimming with emotions every goddamn day

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Heaven would be a comfy armchair, Kiwi decided, rubbing at expletives with his elbow. Beige and golden upholstery, beige and golden wallpaper (what he was actually picturing here, he realized, was the pattern of his mother's brown rosettes on their curtains). You'd get a great, private phonograph, and all of eternity to listen to your life's melody. You could isolate your one life out of the cacophonous galaxy - the a capella version - or you could play it back with its accompaniment, embedded in the brass and strings of mothers, fathers, sisters, windfalls and failures, percussive cities of strangers. You could play it forward or backwards, back and back, and listen to the future of your past. You could lift the need at whim, defeating Time.
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day 1 as an intern
me, holding a newborn who is looking dumbly at me - You and me both, bro. itâs day 1 for both of us and we both donât know shit.
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You know what the Chinese think is the saddest feeling in the world? It's for a child to finally grow the desire to take care of his parents, only to realize that they were long gone.
Paper Menagerie, Ken Liu
Yesterday I said goodbye to my best friend for the past 3 years. I'll see him again, sure, but things won't ever be the same. It is hard to break up with someone I thought I was so compatible with on every level. He was simultaneously the one and not the one. We had an expiration date on us from the start. It didn't make it any easier to leave him.
All he could do was hold me while I sobbed uncontrollably and say sorry a thousand times for my pain. A heart break is so aptly named. It really does feel like the heart is breaking into two.Â
Time and distance. Time and distance. Time and distance.Â
Oh. Thatâs because Iâve stopped smiling,â Mathilde said. âFor so many years, I never let anyone see me without smiling. I donât know why I didnât stop earlier. Itâs enormously relaxing.
Lauren Graff, Fates and Furies
To crave and to have are as like as a thing and its shadow. For when does a berry break upon the tongue as sweetly as when one longs to taste it, and when is the taste refracted into so many hues and savours of ripeness and earth, and when do our senses know any thing so utterly as when we lack it? And here again is a foreshadowing â the world will be made whole. For to wish for a hand on oneâs hair is all but to feel it. So whatever we may lose, very craving gives it back to us again.
Housekeeping, Marilynne Robinson
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I arrive to my aunt and uncleâs place for thanksgiving, and right away I feel uncomfortable. They have preset questions to ask me, and I have a preset role to play. Half of them spoke only in English, without realizing that half of my relatives only speak Chinese. Gradually my grandma and oldest uncle left the table of conversation they were left out of to go sit in the living room. I follow, sitting with them watching a Chinese drama I only understand half of. My Chinese isnât good enough to carry on a deep conversation with them, but hopefully my presence shows my solidarity.
My aunt and I are alone in the kitchen and she asks about my bf, asking about marriage, and barreling on with her questions even though my answers donât line up with her belief of who I am or who I should be. âNo, weâre not getting married, and we donât plan to.â She kept on going like she didnât even hear me.
They donât have much to say to me or about me, and I feel acutely aware of how alone I feel. So many people around me, but none of them really understanding who I am as a person.
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We take an uber to a random personâs house after Nora En Pure. Our uber driver is from France, originally from Congo, âthe heart of Africaâ. We talk about his stand up career, the best places to go get a laugh in SD and LA. Iâm still high off of the amazing performance of Nora En Pure and feeling like I could keep the night going forever. He is relentlessly optimistic about his future in the way that young immigrants are (and have to be?). I felt so the opposite of who he was. But I was feeling happy and bold and content, and I surprise myself and say âThereâs nothing quite like LA at nightâ. I tried on the phrase and it felt weird to say it. I wanted to be someone who lives with the same vibrancy and hope of an uber driver driving around semi-drunk people at 3AM.Â

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my answers feel limp in response to the cheery, ever smiling interviewers. how can I have so little enthusiasm about myself and my experiences? Makes me feel like I havenât found my passion yet. I envy those who found their niche and their drive.Â
Feeling a bit lost at sea at these interviews, one right after another, my answers in constant flux depending on my mood of the day.Â
Iâm talking to an elderly patient. I can tell she cares about how she looks. Perfectly manicured nails. Lipstick. Dressed pretty well. Can even pull off an ankle bracelet at her age. Iâm impressed.
She looks me up and down, in a way that creepy dudes do at a club. And then asks "You Chinese?â Whatever, sheâs old. Then she says âI thought so,â when I confirm. Gold star for you. âYou're very pretty. And so tall, too! Not short.âÂ
I guess I donât fit her stereotype of a short ugly Chinese. I wonder if she voted for Trump.
The rape joke is that you were eight. The rape joke is that at the time, you didnât know people had sex to express love. The rape joke is that the only other person whoâd seen you naked was your mom. The rape joke is that he called you âbeautifulâ first. The rape joke is that he held your hands together and told you to âtry harderâ when you struggled. The rape joke is that you believed him when he told you were overreacting. The rape joke is that your grandma called him a nice boy and asked him to stay for dinner. The rape joke is that he winked at you when you apologized to your parents for not coming downstairs the first time you were called. The rape joke is that his friends high-fived him for âgetting some.â The rape joke is that you still donât feel like youâve regrown the pieces he stole. The rape joke is that he was conceived when his dad slapped himself into his snoring mother. The rape joke is that her friends told her she was lucky someone wanted her. The rape joke is that each year in the United States, 32,000 other womenâs bellies ripen with life against their will. The rape joke is that he never learned to touch without scarring. The rape joke is that your classmate thinks âhave you seen what asses look like in yoga pants?â is an argument. The rape joke is your new boyfriend kissing you and telling you he ârapedâ his math test. The rape joke is that âWhy are girls so scared of rape? Yâall should feel pride that a guy risked his life in jail just to fuck youâ is a popular Tweet right now. The rape joke is that you wake up to the memory of him laughing, ânow that wasnât so bad, was it?â The rape joke is that itâs been twelve years and you still quiver when someone touches you. The rape joke is that he hasnât stopped laughing. The rape joke is that you forgot how to.
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This is the letter I wrote to my friends and colleagues regarding my resignation
Friends.
As some of you have heard, I recently resigned from surgical residency, and am leaving clinical medicine.
Ten years ago, I decided to be a doctor. It was a decision that made perfect sense at the time: I wanted to help people who were suffering, and I was fortunate to have the ability and resources to gain entry into medical school. I wasnât sure which specialty would be my calling, but shortly after starting my clinical rotations I fell in love with surgery. I loved seeing and evaluating patients who had a very clear and usually dramatic surgical problem that I knew could be solved by an operation, by putting hands on the patient and potentially curing them of whatever it was that was ailing them.Â
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One of the med bloggers I really enjoy reading divorces surgery. Iâve stalked her and found her posts insightful, darkly funny, and genuine. Still shocked sheâs leaving, but also recognize that Iâve had those nagging thoughts myself. Iâve always told people that healthcare is so arbitrary. Iâve caught things that may or may not have affected a patientâs outcome (who knows if someone else would have caught it later, or if my decision to speak out made the situation worse?). Things are not standardized in healthcare. Itâs crazy how small, seemingly harmless events, can alter a patientâs clinical course.
Iâm going into family medicine, but the fear of missing something when Iâm the one responsible, will still be there. It just will not be as acute as practicing in the hospital.
Yes it seems like the doctors go home, the nurses go home, and I never get any answers. Everyone gets to go home except me.
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 the worst part is I never have any answers bc I never know anything bc Iâm just the med student. all I can do is listen and hope someone figures out his problem.

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Afterlife
There is a perfect view of the San Francisco skyline from the Rockridge Bart Station. In the morning, the Transamerica tower peaks out from beyond the fog, washed out and fadedâa flattened two dimensional image. At dusk, San Francisco seems to recede back into the red depths of sunset. Ephemeral.
I donât know how I came to be here.
Sometimes, in the midst of the morning hustle to work, in a crowd of homogenous and placid faces, I wonder if I have assimilated. If I become part of an identity larger than myself, if I have dissolved into the solution of the workforce. Or am I simply fooling myself. I am a ghost; a voyeur in the realm of mortals. Some part of my soul has gone away. I am not completely here.Â
I havenât yet decided what is more unsettling: To be here completely or to always be just a little bit removed, detached? Phantasmic.Â
Today is the Tomb-Sweeping Day.Â
In China, families exit the urban maze to pay respects to those who have left us. Loved ones, hated ones, complicated ones, tragic ones, premature ones. Death washes out those feelings and drowns it in a muted sadness.Â
But for my students Tomb-Sweeping Day is a day of fun and festivities. They skip into the hills with their families, slaughter a chicken and turn a grave into a picnic. Sadness and joy are two sides of the same idea.Â
Life and death are two sides of the same idea.Â
Sometimes I wonder if to truly live I have to convince myself to forget deathâs face and feeling. To live as though death does not exist. Sometimes it works. Sometimes I lose myself in joy and exhilaration.
But then I take an extra moment to observe the washed out image of San Francisco fading into nothingness and I find Death standing beside me. And my incomplete soul longs for the West or the Eastâlongs for the afterlife where my loved ones, hated ones, complicated ones, tragic ones reside. For a time that is not this time. For a moment that is not this moment. And this living world of washed out colors and happiness and corporeal relationshipâ
it just isnât enough.Â
I think there is a certain age, for women, when you become fearless. It may be a different age for every woman, I donât know. Itâs not that you stop fearing things: Iâm still afraid of heights, for example. Or rather, of falling â heights arenât the problem. But you stop fearing life itself. Itâs when you become fearless in that way that you decide to live. Perhaps itâs when you come to the realization that the point of life isnât to be rich, or secure, or even to be loved â to be any of the things that people usually think is the point. The point of life is to live as deeply as possible, to experience fully. And that can be done in so many ways.
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