Boundless Boundary

well, do i even say he showed his true colors? it feels a lot more like he just . changed. so many things that seemed to come out of nowhere, compared to his previous wonderfulness.

there was a big group conversation in which he was asked to apologize, and he sidestepped apologizing and treated us like we were all being horribly irrational while still holding a veneer of politeness. and yknow then he was told that it was too much and that we were all very hurt by it, and he hasn't spoken a word to us since. but he's definitely vagueblogged...

well he's vagueblogged other people. he stopped acknowledging me directly at all not long after he specifically told me i should talk to him more.

and sure maybe i'd put him on a pedestal. but he did everything to earn that pedestal until about a year ago.

but he treated me like i was wrong to feel any negative emotion at all when he, who had behaved as though he had DID and who had befriended me as his alters for almost the entire decade i'd known him, told me he didn't have DID after all. he became more concerned with wording-and-phrasing-coaching than ever being supportive. and he just couldn't seem to be positive about anything anybody else around him did, ever, anymore.