AroBee

If you, as a writer who is not AroAllo or loveless, want to write a character who is AroAllo and/or loveless, and you have questions but don’t know where to ask, are afraid or hesitant to ask publicly, and understandably don’t want to go up to random people with your questions, you can always feel free to ask me. You can send me an ask, if you want to on anon, or a private message if you don’t want to ask publicly.

Even if you don’t know how to word your question right, you can ask me. Worst I’ll do is correct your wording (and, most likely, point out the possible underlying issues that become apparent through your wording), as long as you remain overall respectful, I won’t take your questions in the worst possible way.

I want there to be more AroAllo and loveless characters in media, and I understand a lot of people have no clue where to start, or how to write some specific things, or being unsure at any point in their process. And I understand not wanting to ask random people about this stuff because not everyone is open to answer, and it can come across as quite disrespectful.

Happy pride month to AroAllos who are aplatonic!

Happy pride month especially to AroAllos with often demonised mental disorders and disabilities! Especially those with low/no empathy! Happy pride month to AroAllos with personality disorders! Happy pride to AroAllos with schizophrenia-spectrum disorders!

Happy pride month to AroAllos who prioritise sexual connections and/or relationships over platonic ones!

Happy pride month to all the AroAllos who are often excluded from or demonised in even spaces specifically for AroAllos because those spaces still focus a lot on platonic relationships and love and empathy, while ignoring that some of us don’t experience or don’t prioritise those experiences!

Thank you and happy pride to you, too! I’m always glad when my ramblings are helpful :D

On one hand, it’s very fucking annoying. On the other, it’s so ridiculously stupid that I can’t not laugh about it. Like wtf are you talking about.

(Yes I’m cross-stitching on my bed. It’s more comfortable.)

Like idk, dear alloro, it sound like you were leading them on. It sound like you were the asshole and only kept them around in hopes for something that wasn’t agreed upon while lying to their face about what you wanted and felt for them. Sound like a fucking you problem to me.

"But they did [thing] for me and that’s obviously romantic 😭"

Did you tell them that you view it that way? Did you communicate your emotions and how you perceived their actions? Or did you expect them to just know how you felt and respond accordingly? And then got mad when they couldn’t read your fucking mind? And now you’re expecting everyone to feel bad for you and call them an asshole?

Would you ever consider making a version like that? (I understand if u don’t want to run the risk of bringing the kind of unwanted attention that you talked about in the post)

I figure you’ve found the post, but linking it anyway (the flag in my header is an arogay/aroallogay flag I made).

Trans deer :3

Some alternative versions below.

Which version do you like best? I can’t decide.

No nuance. Pick one. Save me.

(ID in alt)

People who insist on calling the bodies of trans men who aren’t medically transitioned "female" or "women’s bodies" are transphobic. There’s no hypothetical woman who owns my body, the body is mine. So it’s a man’s body. Not so hard to get, is it?