☾ sydneyliz ☽

Advice I wish someone had told me - Stop focusing so much on it and go out and live your life! Go to work happy hours, cooking classes, try a new coffee shop, say yes to every event you’re invited to (even when you feel like a third or fifth wheel). Go into these things with an open mind. Maybe you won’t meet someone at this things but you’ll be the first person someone thinks of when their friend, brother, coworker, etc. asks to be set up :)

Whenever it makes sense! For someone who plans a lot in my life I’m taking a backseat on this one lol

Set up auto payments into your 401k and savings so you don’t even feel like it’s gone. Also buy store brand groceries of only what you need. Take the cheaper Uber option. Lay off the things you may not need (shopping, nails, tanning, etc.) so when you do them it’s a treat.

Sometimes I find it’s overwhelming to do a tots 180. Start mixing in content and activities that inspire you (online courses, articles, books) and set up alerts for jobs in your interest so that when the right one pops up you’ll be invigorated and ready to nail it down!