lon

"cozy bookstore" "cozy cafe with a bookshelf" "omg imagine if there was a place you could just sit and read at" we have this its called the library. you guys want to go to the library. the two college libraries near me have cafes inside and they are open to the public. people need to go to the library

Someone needs to tell parents everywhere that a child never complaining is NOT a sign of a mentally healthy child, and it is, in fact, the complete opposite of that.

meeting a new doctor today time to die

got referred to a dysautonomia specialist what a fucking WINNNN

OCD should really be less known as the ‘clean and tidyness’ disorder and much more known as the ‘every decision you ever make feels like you’re being held at gunpoint’ disorder

i kind of straight up despise the way a lot of people on the internet attribute "friendlessness" to "being a chud nobody wants to hang out with". no i can assure you there are an infinite multitude of reasons why somebody might not immediately have a large close knit friend group they're always free to hang out with, and believe it or not, not all of them are moral failings

it's hard to talk about this without sounding like a hit dog hollering or discrediting the people i am lucky enough to have in my own life, so to be clear yes i do have friends but also i've been there and could stand to be less there. it is hurtful to see posts that imply that the only possible reason why somebody might be lonely in today's society, online or in person, is that they're a hateful mean asshole who is antisocial in nature and actually must be completely deserving of their own loneliness. no, some people are autistic, or mentally ill, or shy, or overly busy, or struggle to initiate conversations, or grew up in circumstances that made it harder to fall into these kinds of connections and relationships naturally, or any other number of factors. i don't know why people are so cruel and unsympathetic about the prospect.