Aspiring Transfemme

Yesterday I got my labret piercing done and was also brave and went grocery shopping bare-legged. I'm in my "just do things" era and it's lovely, despite the days where nothing of substance gets accomplished. And that's okay too. This stuff ebbs and flows. 🌸

but that's not good for you, it's not good for trans mascs, it's not good for your relationships with men in general. men overall can be good even though many suck, but masculinity itself can also be good! it's not a negative! masculinity isn't trucks, football and chauvinism, it's good, caring fathers, it's protective older brothers, it's grandfather's teaching you how to fish and dudes being goofy and silly with each other in that way that only men who have let go of fear and shame do.

it is very easy and tempting as a young transfeminine person to lean into the "manhater" stereotype, but both tactically and also for yourself personally, I think it's a mistake. as a trans fem, cis society is going to contrast you against men at best, and portray you as a fucked up kind of man at worst. in your own head, if masculine is evil and wrong ontologically there are going to be parts of you you cannot change that fall into that broad category.

In other news: the zoom function on my phone sucks, but my ass looks fantastic 😘

I need to get out of an abusive and unhealthy living situation. I basically own nothing and need to get an apartment of my own in a state that isn't actively removing my rights. I know a lot of people know about my relationship with @chrissy-kaos but we obviously don't live together. I've been living with someone who treats me very poorly and I need to be on my own. My roommate owns most of the furniture and pays very little of the bills. I don't even own a bed. My bills take up most of my income and I don't get help with that. Its hard for me to save anything at all to start a new life. I need to get my own place and my own things to be okay. I really need help. I won't be able to move till September without breaking my lease. So I need to save $3000 before then to get away, peacefully, from my unhealthy living situation and escape. Please help.

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