Work in Progress

Be with someone who actually gives a fuck about your bad days

No revenge, you’ll look for me in them and never find me

I think the first step towards the life you want is often to just say yes to more things. Accept that coffee invitation from your coworker even if it seems awkward. Sign up for that free class at the library that you're not sure you'll like. Join that club. Book that tour. Say yes to as many things as you can and kill the part of your brain that gut-reacts with a no.

The intimacy of noticing.

trying to heal, while trying to grieve, while trying to live, while trying to forgive, while trying to love, while trying to be loved

healing is lonely. nobody tells you that.

stop making yourself easily available for people who never prioritize you.