Jenn

because who am i if i don‘t give my entire heart everytime?

the idea that restrooms, locker rooms, etc need to be single-sex spaces in order for women to be safe is patriarchy's way of signalling to men & boys that society doesn't expect them to behave themselves around women. it is directly antifeminist. it would be antifeminist even if trans people did not exist. a feminist society would demand that women should be safe in all spaces even when there are men there.

adulthood is like dog training but you are both the dog and the trainer and also it doesn’t work and is bad

no one is coming to save yo- wrong!! everyone who has ever shown you love and/or care is saving you a little bit.

No amount of chemistry can make up for a lack of emotional safety.

i hope wherever you are, you won the war, the one i couldn’t help you win

probably needed a hug but instead i sat in my room thinking about how it all went wrong

don’t put anyone before anything that is beneficial to the progression of you.

and when someone chooses to lose you rather than change, you got your answer

tending to my garden (reblogging posts)