Everything Sucks Forever

Trauma didn't make me nice, I consciously made me nice because I don't want anyone else to suffer like I did. Trauma didn't make me strong, I made me strong. Don't you dare ever tell me my trauma made me anything but scared, broken, and confused. Don't give credit to the abusers for me being a good person. They didn't make me good, I made myself good.

You will never abolish lesbophobia by insisting it can include attraction to men. A prevalent element of lesbophobia is the insistence that we are secretly attracted to men, scared away from them, or broken in some manner. Being bisexual is equally as gay, complex, and amazing as being lesbian, often overlapping, but it's simply different for a reason. You don't need to buy into homophobia.