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anti-antis be like âantis are toxic for harassing people over their ships!!11!â and then go back to shipping abusive/pedophilic shit and being proud of it as if they arenât the problem
// Shipping fictional characters is worse than harassment of real people now??
@just-antithings @theassholeantiarchive2-0 @block-report-program @antis-delete-your-blogs-pls-thx apparently weâre the problem now
Just Anti Things: actually, harassment is better
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"Fujos shouldn't make anime". That's right anime are only for MEN. Those DISGUSTING women shouldn't touch it... except for homophobic women of course they can stay... can't have women who are supportive of gay relationships in OUR anime man.
I hate that age gap between Victor and Yuri. Victor is also Yuriâs teacher. Fujossss shouldnât make anime.
How dare a Japanese woman make an age gap relationship(that isnât even that big of a deal)between two adult men with the agency over who they choose to date. How dare she make a relationship between coach and student be with two adult men. How dare she be so interested in seeing her own characters dating.
@just-antithings
Just Anti Things: I knew this would happen someday
Here it is lads
I'm actually kinda interested in gr1ndledore. I mean I have been ever since I learned that it was a possibility. But I guess imma find a way to look for fanart that doesn't follow the newest movie's design or aesthetic bc that. Just doesn't do it for me
Look... I always assume the best in people. I don't think tumblr based anti-fujoshi are knowingly racist and misogynistic. I don't think antis who don't directly harm others are knowingly abusive. I don't think they are inherently evil. But what they say and do is actually the only thing that matters in terms of the effects they have on people. So it's hard to find an excuse when what they say is what I've heard abusers, racists and misogynistic say, especially when they just straight up refuse to be nuanced or listen to others. Looks like a duck, quacks like a duck, it's frustrating.
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my eternal challenge: find a chill non-anti fma or AoT blog that doesnât have half of the posts blacklisted for me because itâs entirely roy/ed or er/eri
also finding an eremin blog that isnât relentlessly hostile to eremika shippers
Catradora works just like a fujoshi ship except here itâs two women.
Stop defending abuse ya nasties
Just Anti Things:
Like, okay, we know exactly what OP meant by fujoshi ship but can we seriously talk about how racist it is to assume all BL/yaoi content depicts relationships that are abusive/toxic in some way?
I donât know what they mean by fujoshi ship actually. Usually it means m/m ships but in this case thatâs obviously not it
basically they mean âabusive shipâ, because they think only straight people would write romantic noncon/dubcon (because âtrueâ queers are pure, you know /s), somehow believe fujoshi are all straight, and erroneously think only woman-created BL works contain hard kinks, PWP, age gaps, incest and âgrossâ stuff like that. Therefore any relationship that could be misconstrued as abusive is âfor gross straight fetishizersâ.
Lbr that is a lot of definitions to fit into some two-syllable, three-syllable words but I guess since they're japanese words no one should care about their actual meanings anyway.
of fucking course youre a fujoshi. the post you reblogged of mine isnt to justify fujoshi shit, its making fun of the bnha fanbase.
Wow, and to think for a second you had a good post, OP.
The anti-fujo movement is racist, sexist, and transphobic. That really a look you want to enjoy?
lmao suck my toes bitch
So it is a look you want to enjoy?
guess so if it means i get to make fun of people who think fetishizing mlm relationships is ok
Fujoshi means fan of BL, thatâs it.
You canât fetishise sex/a relationship. Thatâs not what fetishise means. You can objectify them but:
These are fictional MLM, they are literal objects with no feelings. To quote you: Itâs anime. Go outside.
ohhh my god. oh my god is this conversation fucking real
fictional shit still harms real people. and you can fetishize mlm relationships, thats the same fucking thing as objectifying, its the fucking definition of fetishize. saying youre a fan of BL is even worse, by saying youre a FAN of BL thats literally proving my point that fujoshis fetishize mlm. its not a healthy way to represent mlm couples, and again, it harms real people. yaoi isnt supportive of lgbt people, its gross and harmful. hows about you go outside, hettie.
Fictional shit doesnât harm real people, it canât physically go out and attack you. People can use fiction as a tool to harm others, but people can also use a goddamn puppy as a tool to harm others, so.
No, itâs not. The definition of fetishise is âa form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc.â. A human being, or two human beings, doing sexual things being portrayed in a sexual light is not fetishisation. Yaoi was made by LGBTQ people, not all BL portrays abusive relationships, itâs fucking racist to say otherwise.
Also Iâm queer and NB but nice fucking try.
how the fuck is is racist, youre just throwing things at me now. yaoi is made by straight women for straight women. i dont care if youre q/eer, its harmful and sabotages the lgbt community. the yaoi community is gross, thats that.
Itâs racist because fujoshi is a Japanese term youâve completely misappropriated to mean, in your eyes, something homophobic and shameful. To apply all problematic tropes in romance media (which exist) to all yaoi, the Japanese term for fictional MLM relationships, implies that Japan has never created a nuanced or realistic portrayal of gay men, and that all their media is gross and homophobic. Thatâs fucking racist.
Also, yaoi is made primarily by queer people, but even if it werenât the case, straight women being aroused by two men having sex is literally completely normal and a natural response?
@rottenboysclub can explain from a more nuanced perspective.
I have to wonder if people who are so virulently anti-fujoshi and anti-yaoi like this have ever, like, spoken to a fujoshi in a non-hostile confrontation (and not just an over-excited young teen who hasnât learned boundaries yet)? Or read any BL outside of the straight up porn? Because I genuinely just donât understand how you come to the conclusion that BL or fujoshi are âharmful to the lgbt communityâ or that all BL is âfetishisticâ trash if you have.
Unless youâre only forming your opinion off of what other anti-yaoi anti-fujoshi people have claimed about them, I just donât get how you end up so frothing at the mouth about a genre centered around queer romance and the (usually queer themselves) people that consume it if youâve personally engaged with either (outside of the stereotypical extremes antis often present as being the majority, which theyâre not).
Sometimes I actually want them to talk to actual japanese fujoshi (there are uh... idk a lot of them... if the support for mlm relationships from their end I've seen is any indication). But then I don't want to subject them to this website's bullshit.
Catradora works just like a fujoshi ship except here itâs two women.
Stop defending abuse ya nasties
Just Anti Things:
Like, okay, we know exactly what OP meant by fujoshi ship but can we seriously talk about how racist it is to assume all BL/yaoi content depicts relationships that are abusive/toxic in some way?
I don't know what they mean by fujoshi ship actually. Usually it means m/m ships but in this case that's obviously not it
tumblr is on the verge of rediscovering regular degular sexual attraction to other humans and i dont know if we can handle it, collectively
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anon real dumb thinking the v slur staff supports sheith MSDMCFEDMSWDFMDE. sheith is never going to be canon and it was literally confirmed by one of the members (barlee iirc? she's the / a storyboard artist i think) and it said something like "{shiro/keith] they aren't speaking in fucking code". and even the fact that u need ur ship to be validated by a bunch of weirdos who make cartoons is pretty pathetic on it's own anon GO OUTSIDE SDCVFDEJ
Dkejwhehje. Anti antis are on some crack and i want sum.
Just Anti Things: v slur again?
Why do they talk like this
If you are a Fujoshi/Fudanshi, you are
A bad person.
Sick and disgusting.
Homophobic.
Itemizing and fetishising gay relationships.
THERE IS ONLY ONE DEFINITION OF THE TERMS FUJOSHI, FUDANSHI, AND YAOI. DONâT CHANGE THEM TO PROVE A POINT TO SOMEONE.
YOU SHOULD
Be ashamed to be a fujoshi/fudanshi.
Be scared to be part of a fandom.
AND IF YOU ARE A FUJOSHI/FUDANSHI
You deserve to piss your pants.
You are a horrible human being.
If you are NOT a fujoshi/fudanshi, and are mlm/wlw
đđHave a wonderful day you valid babeđđ
Anyway fujoshi and fudanshi are great đđđđ
Make your own post and leave me alone đđđđ
Nah đđđđđđđđđ
If you arenât Japanese and you decided you are the arbiter of a different countryâs culture, you are
A BAD PERSON
A RACIST
BORING
If you think men who read m/m fiction are somehow fetishizing themselves, you are
HOMOPHOBIC
SICK AND DISGUSTING
Anyway, when will racists shut their fucking mouths? No one invited you to consume and colonize our culture.
"DONâT CHANGE THEM TO PROVE A POINT TO SOMEONE.". Uhhhh aren't english speaking fandom-sters the ones who changed the meaning of those JAPANESE WORDS to fit their agenda? Bc Japanese people haven't been using the same definitions for decades? Lmao?
I really donât need to see your ugly defective child all over my dashboard because these morons think making her do this abusive shit is cute. Please stop this nonesense and act like an adult and a mother before someone reports you and gets her finally taken away.
Well Iâm shocked to see this because I really do not remember turning anon back on.
But to address your extremely real concerns,
Anon: * calls child defective while also trying feel concern for said child*
Itâs okay anon you can say youâre an ugly fake woke person he get itđ
-mod space
Anon deserves a punch by karma in their fucking fake-woke face.
Antis back at it again claiming that vld is trying to bait sheith shippers with the t-shirts.
Sorry antis that you donât know what it is to get good things from the vld crew and outside sources that you think any positive thing directed towards the sheith fandom is baiting.
Ever stop to think that because we donât bitch about anything, the crew treats us with respect? Something that you all have clearly never been treated with.
We put good out in the fandom and we get good things in return. Donât act all surprised that we keep getting good things when all you antis ever do is whine and complain.
Also, one more thing. Weâre not stupid.
No sheith shipper in their right mind is going to look at a t-shirt and think âoh, sheith is definitely going to become canonâ
Sure, we analyse and create theories all the time but the difference between sheithers and antis is that we know how to check ourselves. We know how to step back and say âeven though I believe that there is evidence to suggest that sheith could become canon, Iâm not going to get mad at the show if Iâm proven wrongâ
If sheith doesnât become canon, I can guarantee that you will not hear one word from sheith shippers. Weâll be disappointed, sure, but not angry enough to go after the crew and call queerbaiting, among all the other garbage you antis pulled after season 7.
Weâre not like you in anyway. We know how to act like normal people. We know the limits. We know when to be wishful thinkers and we know when to be pragmatic.
Just because you guys lack that capability, donât try and demonize the crew like you always do. Donât act like youâre trying to give us advice. Weâre not idiots like you guys were with your ships.
The crew has always been giving us sheith. You antis were just too far up your own asses to see it.
Just Anti Things: itâs not about ships, but we managed to sneak klance in here anyway!
Bruhhhh.
Also why does that have so many notes omfg
The amount of notes disturbs me
If Iâm allowed,Iâm just pissed off that this entire image exists. I can take hearing peoples different opinions,but this is taking a drawing someone worked hard on and just defacing it. The crew member who worked on the original piece meant for it to inspire and comfort people who dealt with the issues mentioned and this person is using it to show what they dislike about the season. It was using characters the fandom loved to show that everyone deserves to be respected,and this person just decided to throw that message aside and use it to show that they donât respect the creatorâs decisions for this season. Whoever drew the original art worked their asses off and meant for it to be positive,to give hope to those that felt like they werenât worth anything something to show they werenât alone and this person ignored it. They disregarded the artistâs vision and disregarded the people it helped and comforted.
Fuck this picture
also, the original drawing was intersectional, talking about race, gender, and sexuality. this just reduces it to being about LGBT+ issues and shipping, which is really reductive
Also the original drawing was posted after the US Election. Lauren knew a lot of fans were worried and scared about Trump winning, so she posted this art saying âyou are deserving of respect.â
http://thebestlaurenmontgomery.tumblr.com/post/152937210858/never-let-anyone-tell-you-otherwise-regardless-of
To see people twist Laurenâs sweet attempt to spread reassurance post-election into something about ships is infuriating. Her intention with this drawing had little to do with the outcome of the show and its characters
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I spent all morning on this âkind of a joke, but not really because fujoshis are still a thing in 2018â
Ey! Take that Yuri! On Ice off of there! I refuse to be anywhere NEAR associated to those,, creatures.
Yuri on Ice was created by a fujoshi
Excuse,,,?? When was this?
since forever lolÂ
All of Yuri on Ice Japanese artists that draw mlm couples on pixiv are fujo/fudan/ etc. by the way. They literally tag their works as YOIăč ă (č = âfuâ)
fujoshi = woman and like/support mlm ships. so by japanese standard kubo mitsurou is a fujoshi (since, you know, sheâs japanese)
Fujoshi =/= cisgender straight white girl
Fujoshi =/= homophobic
Fujoshi =/= fetishizing mlm
Fujoshi =/= sexualizing relationships between males
Fujoshi = a female or female-alligned person who enjoys mlm content
No. I am a female who enjoys mlm content, but I would never call myself a fujoshi. You know why? Because those are women who fetishize gay men. Thatâs literally what they are. The rest of us, who read and write stories about mlm that donât focus on the sexual parts of their relationship and treat them with as much respect as weâd treat a straight couple, are not like those women. Donât try and say that we are.
You are just a fujoshi who doesnât know the definition of fujoshi
The definition of fujoshi is ârotten womanâ so Iâd say that Iâm not the one who doesnât know the definition here.
It was reclaimed a long time ago but nice try
Why does that matter? Also why are you trying to force a label onto me?
Because you tried to come up with a gotcha but it literally doesnât change anything. A fujoshi is a female or female-alligned person who enjoys mlm content. Sound familiar? Also, it was homophobic men who were salty that the women werenât good old housewives who came up with the word fujoshi (rotten woman), and as I already said, it was reclaimed a long time ago.
Are you trying to claim that white men came up with a Japanese word? Yâall are delusional.
Where did I say that these homophobic sexist men were white??
Because the with fujoshi isnât new? Itâs an old Japanese word that had nothing to do with American housewives? Or homophobia? Youâre obviously clueless about everything youâre talking about, so this conversation is pointless. Donât bother replying. I wonât read it.
This is the level of stupidity Iâve come to expect from antis. First they donât know the actual history of the words these use, and then they project their already American-centric views so hard onto an argument that has nothing to do with it.
Good job. I really hope that you grow from this point in your life. That you can look back and see what a twat you were. Weâve all been there, trust me. Just know when you think back on this moment in your life and feel shame that those of us that interacted with you know enough that youâre just a kid that will grow out of this, no hard feelings. I hope you grow to be less angry and ill-informed to the world around you.
Until then, donât be stupid, stupid.
Do you honestly think that just because you knew the history of a word better than me that you won the argument? Thatâs hilarious. I couldnât give a rats ass what you call yourselves. I only care about what you do, and thatâs fetishizing gay men.
So until you figure that out, hon, Iâll keep listening to mlm voices over yours and respecting them. Donât be stupid, stupid.
Then Iâm going to point you over to https://rottenboysclub.tumblr.com/
A gay boy with knowledge of japanese language(thanks to family members being Japanese) and fandom history and a fan of BL and geicomi. In short a mlm voice who does not associate or define fujoshi or BL as inherently âfetishizingâ of gay men. Also please remember that being oppressed in one aspect of your life does not mean you can not be an oppressor in another aspect. A gay man can be just as hateful and misogynistic to women(cis or trans) as a straight man. Maybe you should listen to more MLM voices than just the ones youâve heard before.Â
Some of their posts about this issue
https://rottenboysclub.tumblr.com/post/170536571249/i-think-a-lot-of-people-complain-about-the-word
https://rottenboysclub.tumblr.com/post/177835301529/hey-just-so-you-know-the-anti-fujoshi-movement
https://rottenboysclub.tumblr.com/post/177123222999/takanos-love-butt-rottenboysclub
Also I am going to ask why you are assuming @chaotic-good-discourse is fetishizing/objectifying gay men. Again you yourself state you enjoy mlm content without fetishizing gay men so why does it seem inconceivable that other people can do the same thing? Is it just because they refuse to let you spread misinformation about a term and donât want you undo the efforts of people have done to reclaim it.
Yeah, they are outliners. Notice how you only had one mlm voice supporting you. Thatâs like white people saying they can say the n word because their friend said they could.
Heâs one that I know of, thatâs not to say there arenât more. I can tell you that when I first got into fandom I was in a small group of fans that included 2 gay men(who were dating, and are now happily married with 2 adopted children) and were quite happy to encourage us in the production of our BL smut. But that was a while ago and theyâve fallen out of online fandom and never made the jump to tumblr.
Now I am going to ask what are your sources that fujoshi only means and have ever only meant homophobic women objectifying gay relationship(in defiance of pretty much ever article regarding the history of BL) Have you looked at them critically to determine what gives them the right to speak for ALL mlm(including over mlm arguing against them) How have you determined that their criticism isnât rooted in misogyny and desire to oppress women. Why are you allowing them to define a term and label women based on their taste in fiction and NOT on their actions and treatment of real life gay men.
And I am going to ask again. How can you claim that you a self identified female enjoy mlm content without it being fetishizing, but say that other women who enjoy that same content are fetishizing mlm? Because you donât apply a certain term to yourself and they do? What would you do is a gay man called you a fujoshi because of your enjoyment of mlm? Would you stop consuming that content. Deny that you have ever enjoyed it at all?
Wow, you guys really think youâre opressed, donât ya.
I never said anything about being oppressed currently. I simply asked if you had considered the possibility that maybe your sources for the definition of fujoshi arenât as altruistic and woke as you seem to think. I mean they are attempting to bring back a misogynistic and hateful definition of a term. Again the term fujoshi wasnât an insult meant to criticize women for âfetishizing gay men.â It was a term meant to describe them as undesirable for marriage and worthless. And women have historically been criticize and oppressed regarding their sexuality(and expression there of.) So maybe you shouldnât be so keen to relinquish a reclaimed gendered slur.
Still I have apparently over-estimated you. I thought you were capable of introspective thought and critical thinking. But apparently you are not. You still havenât cited any sources or provided any evidence to back up your claim that the term fujoshi is limited to just women who fetishize gay men. You havenât explained how people are supposed to distinguish between fujoshi(as you define it) and simple fans of BL/mlm content. Again I would recommend that you remember there are people who will label you as fujoshi simply because you are a women/woman identifying person who consumes mlm content. And the simple act of consuming said mlm content means you are fetishizing gay men for your own enjoyment. What is your response to them. What makes your consumption and enjoyment of mlm content different from another womanâs. Because you reject a certain label and she doesnât? Even if outside of that label you donât consume different content, and you donât treat real life gay men any differently.
At this point I donât expect an answer. Not a real one anyway. Your behavior throughout this entire conversation has been non-supported declarative statements and one liners in attempts to shout down dissent and debate. You are not interested in actually discussing the multiple issues surrounding the term fujoshi, its previous history and usage. How it was used to insult and hurt teen girls and women. Youâre not interested in separating actual harmful behaviors from innocent non harmful ones. You just want to strut around going âOh Iâm not like those other BL/mlm fans. Iâm not like those other(icky) girls. Itâs doesnât matter that I consume the same stuff as them. Iâm special and pure.â
itâs all simply performative, fake, and utterly meaningless. It doesnât help or protect anyone but serves to feed nothing but your own ego. But I suspect thatâs all that really matters to you.
âDo you honestly think that just because you knew the history of a word better than me that you won the argument?â Um. YES? Thatâs usually how arguments over the definitions of words work?
The reason why japanese fans aren't here to correct y'all dumbasses on words from their own culture is because they have their own fandom spaces and they generally don't give a shit about english speaking fandoms, not because they don't exist, genius
