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Name: NEDÂ
Age: ageless
Identity: bigender, greyro ace, pan nb lesbian, femme, transmasc, queer
Pronouns: it/itâs, they/them, ney/nem. I appreciate mixing them up đÂ
Interests: crochet, drink making, baking, flowers, and marine life <3
I accept all systems, all sexualities, all paraphilias, all genders, but NOT milk drinkers
No DNI Iâll just hunt you down myself /j
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Sorry for the inactivity >_< i was sick! but im ok now! yay!
wait, more from the technilesboy anon. do you know of any more spaces or blogs that are inclusive of us?
back when i realised i was a lesbian and identified as bigender it was difficult enough to join lesbian support/safespace chats, now its nearly impossible because i am not welcome in many ofc. i was thinking of joining old timey support groups because they dont seem to spread separatism. but yeah, any ideas?:0
i absolutely do! many mogai blogs are accepting of lesboys- i recommend looking up lesboy on tumblr, you'll find many lesboys and safe blogs. a lot of mogai coiners (i have a list here) are very supportive of lesboys, and you can follow lesboy tags! some blogs i recommend are @gaybian-culture-is @rad-inclus-lesbian-culture-is @rezevil @lesboyfemboy @batm0th @rad-inclus-culture-is @wearequeer-andwearehere and of course all of my other blogs are as well, @queer-nd-culture-is @aspec-sapphic-culture-is @aroflux-culture-is @quoicultureis @coiner-culture-is @mogai-sunflowers @meadow-of-mogai-melodies
there are also a few links to some discord servers here that are specifically for lesboys and other identities that are often subject to exclusionism, here here and here
@kenochoric and @pinkfruitgender also both have popular mogai servers that are radically inclusive, and i highly recommend them! i don't have links for them on me rn, but you can go to their blogs and search for them and easily find them :3
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If you honestly think that people cant be attracted to gender, then youâre stupid
There is nothing that people arenât attracted to! Absolutely nothing! And people attracted to gender arenât even a minority!
Just because you donât relate doesnât mean it suddenly doesnât exist. cope
people cant be attracted to gender
What is this, reverse anti-para rhetoric?
its usually transphobes who say that, like âpeople are attracted to sex, not gender!!â
terfs are too annoying. im going to bed. goodnight and happy lesbianism
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If you honestly think that people cant be attracted to gender, then you're stupid
There is nothing that people arenât attracted to! Absolutely nothing! And people attracted to gender arenât even a minority!
Just because you donât relate doesn't mean it suddenly doesn't exist. cope
How to tell if youâre allowed to ID as a lesbian:
If you have have a connection to the lesbian label, feel comfortable with it, and have a desire to label yourself as a lesbian, then congratulations! You can be a lesbian, Regardless of your gender or other aspects of your orientation.Â
The only thing that excludes you from lesbianism is not identifying as one~!
How to tell if youâre allowed to ID as a lesbian:
If you are not a man and you are attracted exclusively to people who are not men, then congratulations! You are a lesbian.
The only thing that expires you from lesbianism is being a man and being attracted to men!
At what point does a person count as a man? Is a genderfluid person whoâs a man part-time and a woman part-time still a man? What about transmasculine nonbinary people?
What about bigender people? Who are men and women simultaneously and completely? What about people who are old enough to have been part of the community before the definition of lesbian was narrowed (a pretty recent thing)?
> What about bigender people? Who are men and women simultaneously and completely?
if theyâre afabs exclusively attracted to afabs, they can be lesbians regardless of gender identity bc theyâre female homosexuals
> What about people who are old enough to have been part of the community before the definition of lesbian was narrowed (a pretty recent thing)?
you are so fucking stupid. stop getting your information from unsourced social media posts. read a book for once in your miserable ignorant life. lesbian didnât come into use until the 1960s (as a replacement for homophile, invert, tribade, and sex variant). almost immediately, feminists who werenât lesbians took over the label to signal theyâre women who prioritize women. then the following decade, queers took the label for any woman who wanted to be a lesbian, even if sheâs attracted to men and frequently sleeps with men. the word was taken over by homophobic bisexual women and never originally meant lesbian. anyone who is opposite sex attracted is not a lesbian. being gay is not a choice. stop punching down and erasing minorities.Â
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if theyâre afabs exclusively attracted to afabs, they can be lesbians regardless of gender identity bc theyâre female homosexuals
Lesbian doesnât necessarily = female homosexual.
lesbian didnât come into use until the 1960s (as a replacement for homophile, invert, tribade, and sex variant). almost immediately, feminists who werenât lesbians took over the label to signal theyâre women who prioritize women. then the following decade, queers took the label for any woman who wanted to be a lesbian, even if sheâs attracted to men and frequently sleeps with men. the word was taken over by homophobic bisexual women and never originally meant lesbian.
Source?
being gay is not a choice
Who said it was?
Lesbian always means female homosexual.
Definitions change.
Some do. This one didnât.
It already has, lmfao
And whatâs the definition you believe it has now?
Whoever identifies as a lesbian in good faith.
Thatâs a circular definition. âA lesbian is a lesbian.â Someone who âidentifies as a lesbianâ - what are they identifying with?
The lesbian label.
So letâs say this label is on a box, describing its contents in the way labels do. We look to labels to help us categorize or identify things, such as contents of containers, or groups of people. What is inside the box with the label âlesbianâ? What type of person would identify as one, and what does it signify?
Personally, I view lesbian as meaning âqueer attraction to womenâ. I think that is the simplest, most accurate definition for how lesbian is currently used.Â
What does âqueer attractionâ mean? How is attraction âqueerâ? Does it dye its hair and wear pronoun pins, like most of the âqueerâ people I see? Does it mean âstraight with extra steps,â also like most of the âqueerâ people I see?
And no, as usual, the simplest and most accurate definition is âfemale homosexual,â but for some reason thatâs not acceptable anymore.
Your hatred of queer people really jumped out didnât it?
Queer attraction, much like queer itself as a label, can vary greatly in meaning, but *generally* it tends to refer to same gender attraction or attraction by nonbinary people who feel their attraction is inherently queer, due to not being the same or âoppositeâ gender as the one they are attracted toÂ
Why do you feel that âfemale homosexualâ most accurately reflects the way lesbian is used in these current days? If itâs not acceptable anymore, meaning people do not feel it accurately describes lesbians as a whole and therefore do not use it and advocate against its use, it would not qualify as fitting the way lesbian is defined today.
Whatâs to hate about flamboyant dressers and straight people? As far as Iâm concerned they can keep on keepinâ on.
Here in the real world, sexuality is based on sex. This is good, because gender is meaningless. Heterosexuals are interested in the sex that is not theirs - a male attracted to females, or a female attracted to males, for example. This includes people who âidentifyâ as something else. Bisexuals - people interested in either sex.
Homosexuals are same-sex-attracted people. Males attracted to males are gay, females attracted to females are lesbians.
People who are upset that âlesbianâ doesnât describe them just arenât lesbians, then. Itâs a perfectly fine descriptor for actual female homosexuals, not males who say theyâre women who are attracted to women. There are other sexualities that may suit them better, such as bisexuality. Or heterosexuality.
I feel that the term âlesbianâ has no need to change its definition because it literally accurately describes the people who should be using it - females with single, same-sex attraction only. Others who get disappointed by that ârestrictiveâ definition should consider that maybe theyâre just not lesbians. We seek to expand definitions when theyâre no longer accurate; actual lesbians did not agree to have their word and their community overrun by males in dresses, bisexuals who just wonât use that word, and anyone else who isnât a female homosexual.
This is not about what lesbian should be, itâs about how its defined in the modern day. if enough people define a word a certain way, that becomes the (or one of)Â âtrueâ definiton of that word. You, one person, cannot change that. Many people define lesbian to be inclusive of trans people, many people define lesbian based on gender because of their own attraction, and they cannot be ignored. You may disagree with them, but its reality whether you like it or not.
Far too many people experience attraction to gender- sometimes even greater than attraction to sex- for them to be ignored. So, no, gender is not âmeaninglessâ, and thereâs nothing in this world that no one is attracted to!
You may think the meaning of lesbian has no need for change, but it already has. Either change your definition to be accurate, or cope.
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How to tell if youâre allowed to ID as a lesbian:
If you have have a connection to the lesbian label, feel comfortable with it, and have a desire to label yourself as a lesbian, then congratulations! You can be a lesbian, Regardless of your gender or other aspects of your orientation.Â
The only thing that excludes you from lesbianism is not identifying as one~!
How to tell if youâre allowed to ID as a lesbian:
If you are not a man and you are attracted exclusively to people who are not men, then congratulations! You are a lesbian.
The only thing that expires you from lesbianism is being a man and being attracted to men!
At what point does a person count as a man? Is a genderfluid person whoâs a man part-time and a woman part-time still a man? What about transmasculine nonbinary people?
What about bigender people? Who are men and women simultaneously and completely? What about people who are old enough to have been part of the community before the definition of lesbian was narrowed (a pretty recent thing)?
> What about bigender people? Who are men and women simultaneously and completely?
if theyâre afabs exclusively attracted to afabs, they can be lesbians regardless of gender identity bc theyâre female homosexuals
> What about people who are old enough to have been part of the community before the definition of lesbian was narrowed (a pretty recent thing)?
you are so fucking stupid. stop getting your information from unsourced social media posts. read a book for once in your miserable ignorant life. lesbian didnât come into use until the 1960s (as a replacement for homophile, invert, tribade, and sex variant). almost immediately, feminists who werenât lesbians took over the label to signal theyâre women who prioritize women. then the following decade, queers took the label for any woman who wanted to be a lesbian, even if sheâs attracted to men and frequently sleeps with men. the word was taken over by homophobic bisexual women and never originally meant lesbian. anyone who is opposite sex attracted is not a lesbian. being gay is not a choice. stop punching down and erasing minorities.Â
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if theyâre afabs exclusively attracted to afabs, they can be lesbians regardless of gender identity bc theyâre female homosexuals
Lesbian doesnât necessarily = female homosexual.
lesbian didnât come into use until the 1960s (as a replacement for homophile, invert, tribade, and sex variant). almost immediately, feminists who werenât lesbians took over the label to signal theyâre women who prioritize women. then the following decade, queers took the label for any woman who wanted to be a lesbian, even if sheâs attracted to men and frequently sleeps with men. the word was taken over by homophobic bisexual women and never originally meant lesbian.
Source?
being gay is not a choice
Who said it was?
Lesbian always means female homosexual.
Definitions change.
Some do. This one didnât.
It already has, lmfao
And whatâs the definition you believe it has now?
Whoever identifies as a lesbian in good faith.
Thatâs a circular definition. âA lesbian is a lesbian.â Someone who âidentifies as a lesbianâ - what are they identifying with?
The lesbian label.
So letâs say this label is on a box, describing its contents in the way labels do. We look to labels to help us categorize or identify things, such as contents of containers, or groups of people. What is inside the box with the label âlesbianâ? What type of person would identify as one, and what does it signify?
Personally, I view lesbian as meaning âqueer attraction to womenâ. I think that is the simplest, most accurate definition for how lesbian is currently used.Â
What does âqueer attractionâ mean? How is attraction âqueerâ? Does it dye its hair and wear pronoun pins, like most of the âqueerâ people I see? Does it mean âstraight with extra steps,â also like most of the âqueerâ people I see?
And no, as usual, the simplest and most accurate definition is âfemale homosexual,â but for some reason thatâs not acceptable anymore.
Your hatred of queer people really jumped out didn't it?
Queer attraction, much like queer itself as a label, can vary greatly in meaning, but *generally* it tends to refer to same gender attraction or attraction by nonbinary people who feel their attraction is inherently queer, due to not being the same or âoppositeâ gender as the one they are attracted toÂ
Why do you feel that âfemale homosexualâ most accurately reflects the way lesbian is used in these current days? If itâs not acceptable anymore, meaning people do not feel it accurately describes lesbians as a whole and therefore do not use it and advocate against its use, it would not qualify as fitting the way lesbian is defined today.
