it fills you with determination

taking pics of ur friends without them asking u to bc they looked so pretty in that exact moment

randomly giving tiny gifts (a comic book that ur friend likes, a heart-shaped piece of paper with a sweet message on it)

handwritten letters with cute stickers

remembering what ur friend likes or dislikes

inside jokes

long phone calls

facetiming while ur both doing something else (study dates like that are on another level of intimacy)

cooking something for ur friend

sending texts when u randomly think abt them

listening without judging

making someone laughs so hard that their whole body shakes

hanging out in furniture stores nd testing every couch there is

deep conversations when it's deep in the night

holding hands while jaywalking so that u Both get hit by a car

randomly buying a flower for someone

letting ur friends taste ur food and also tasting theirs to the point where u basically ate a fair amount off of each plate on the table

"give me that I'll carry it for u"

helping ur friend decide what to wear while also reminding them that they look amazing no matter what

being involved in every bad hair decision (dyeing ur friend's hair grey in between playing with their switch)

paying attention

being aware nd understanding of someone's financial situation ("dw I'll pay for u")

looking stupid in public together (dancing in stores to overplayed pop songs, singing loudly in ur car)

hugging people when u say hi and goodbye to them

being there for someone even if u can't help them

"this reminded me of u"

 it censored the butt in butter

She says that people who from a young age were made to feel like they kept doing things wrong - people who’s parents had impossibly high standards for them, people who were bullied, people who have special needs, people who didn’t develop crushes on the “right” people, people who didn’t act like the “right” gender - basically ended up being made to feel guilty so much that guilt became their default response to everything. Guilt became the emotional response to anything which the person didn’t already have a set emotion for.

“this decade ends in 2 months” : bad

#david: so i was the VICTIM of a HATE CRIME???????