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I imagine there are. 

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Boo has a couple of tricks when it comes to going down on me....

gently cupping and stroking the balls. use your other hand, moving it up an down in time with your mouth. licks that go up the length and then circle the rim of the head. butterfly licks over the tip. the hand that is ball cupping- you can stroke the gooch (it’s the outside of the butthole ‘g-spot’). Use a smaller vibrating toy, gently roll it up and around everything. listen for his reactions and you’ll discover where it’s most enjoyed. gentle pretend swallowing motions while he is in your mouth might be appreciated, (it gives momentary suction pressure- always go gently first. if he likes it harder he can say so). depending how big your mouth is, once everything is lubed and slippy, gently suck a ball (or two) into your mouth and hold it there (careful not to jerk or pull), lick it in various ways, flicks or slow circles. 

-Leo.

Boo tips- Get your mouth really wet. like really really wet. Get out the lube. Put your music on so you feel all enthusiastic, naughty and confident. Put yourself in a position where your balance is good enough to let you use both hands on him. Tie your hair back. Don’t worry about any mistakes, just enjoy. Best tip I read was to enjoy his dick. You’re showing affection and worship of your best friend. ;) If you’re comfy with it, let him move with your rhythm. If he starts distracting you by wriggling/thrusting give him that ‘ah ah ah,’ smiling face that says stop it. Generally my aim is to get him so wound up that he feels like he HAS to fuck me. Do one trick at a time so you can figure out his favourites. Remember that the main point is the wet mouth and the rhythm. 

Thank you honey! That’s so nice to hear. :) Will do. 

I feel ya hon. When I go out with Leo I feel I look like a predator which is ironic considering he’s the Dom. I do worry about people saying nasty things. 

If you want to blend in more then you could dress in a mature fashion, get him to dress younger. But that’s having to hide yourself and we shouldn’t have to. 

I guess for both of us, we have to hold our heads up and look people straight in the eye. If we are safe and happy in our chosen relationships then we have no reason to cast our eyes down. Besides, having a confident look will stop people questioning you too much. Acting nervous would make people think you have reason to be nervous, y’know what I mean? Carry yourself with confidence and people will feel much less need to question anything.

To be loved is a wonderful thing. Why should we feel ashamed? 

We‘re going to need more info than that honey. What are you struggling with about it?

For me, I really do forget that there’s an age gap. Leo and I are just us. it’s only when we have to go outside that I worry about looking older! I’ve said it before but I’ll repeat, the most important part about a relationship is that both parties are being respected and protected. Age gaps don’t ensure that or dismiss that. It comes down to two people who are drawn to each other. 

If you message again, let me know what part you’re struggling with and I’ll try to help.

Stay safe. 

Leo has let me be the Dom twice so far. It was a lot of fun. Not like swapping the big and little thing, just me getting to be bossy for a while. It helps me feel reassured that Leo can share the power, that he trusts me like I have to trust him. I couldn’t be a big, I don’t think. I have so many ‘real life’ responsibilities that being with Leo and surrendering to our dynamic is my haven where I get to hand over all the adult stuff. (still a lot of fun though, to be in control and I hope to get to do it again someday).

Boo. xx

We don’t do ‘age play’ as such, (and we forget that there is an age difference). But like boo said, she does get to have her own time to do what she wants, and it is pretty different, but it’s good. 

P.s. She will get to do it again.