Bweh!

My case is actually more curious than Benjamin button

fun game for tmes to play: is this person a Genderfuck Genderweird or are you percieving an incongruity between a feminine gender/presentation and an assumed "maleness" of the body?

I guess to summarize, it's hard to separate the common idea of "genderfuck" I see from like... Visibly Transfeminine. And it's just... y'know, really rude and betrays unquestioned transmisogyny to look at Visibly Transfeminine people and go "thats a freak! thats a Gender Aberration!" even if you mean it in a complimentary way.

I have had a lot of evil people say to me that nothing taste as good as skinny feels and every time im like no im pretty sure food tastes really super good actually

A large part of the reason families were bigger in the past was because marital rape was not considered rape and birth control/abortion methods were ineffective, dangerous and/or illegal. We can dance around this and act like our great great great grandmothers just loveddddd being mamas so much that they decided out of their own free will to have 11 children. We can pretend that they DECIDED to have big families because it was a financially advantageous decision so they could have more labor around the farm. But a lot of children in the past were fundamentally unwanted and not conceived out of love, children were not a choice women got to make. We need to admit that and stop pretending historical women were inherently more maternal because they were impregnated at the age of 15 and kept having babies until they were 40. That did not make them loving mothers, it did not make them ‘the divine feminine’ and it sure did not make them happy.

me and my beasts.

@cinemamind

There's a somewhat-unstated division in social progressive circles that goes "being socially inept for autism reasons is fine, but being socially inept for regular reasons is bad and mockable." And then in practice everyone assumes it's for regular reasons when it comes up

i feel like being turned on by your own body is so agonizingly normal it's so fucked that that one guy made it a whole diagnosis specifically for trans women. and he's not even dead yet