Good Stuff from Larry James

Networking is Not About Selling!!!

Networking is not about selling! Did you know there are still people out there who are selling at networking meetings/events? They are so anxious to get their business card in as many hands as possible and with each conversation they are trying to sell you their product or service.

Many people think that they have to pitch every person they meet at an event so that they can get new business,…

Lauri Leadley, CCSH, RPSGT, Guest Author

Good sleep is as necessary for the health of our bodies as drinking clean water every day.

Unfortunately, with most lifestyles people lead today, getting quality sleep is often overlooked.

The result? More and more people come to me with one complaint – the feeling of being tired or sluggish all the time. This feeling persists regardless of the number of…

All the Things Your Wedding DJ Can Do (Besides Play Music)

Kim Forrest, Guest Author

Your wedding DJ will do far more than just play songs. Here’s a list of other important tasks your DJ will handle on your big day.

Your wedding DJ will play a vital role on your big day—and it’s actually more than just playing music to fill the dance floor. In fact, a wedding DJ has many jobs to do, some of which you’ll see, others that are more under-the-radar. That’s…

5 Quick Tips to De-Stress During Holiday Time!

Lori Hollander, LCSW-C, BCD, Guest Author

Who said, “It’s the most wonderful time of the year?” Whether you celebrate Christmas, Hanukkah or Kwanzaa, the holidays are stressful.

When we experience stress, our bodies react by setting off our “fight-or-flight” mechanism. The fight-or-flight response is a physiological reaction that served to alert us to danger in caveman days.

When we perceive an…

9 Proven Strategies to Avoid Holiday Weight Gain!

Amy Keating, M.S., R.D., Guest Author

For all the joy—and delicious food—that the holidays can bring, the time can also be somewhat stressful if you’re watching your weight or managing a health concern, such as type 2 diabetes or high blood pressure.

You don’t want to make food the enemy, but it’s good to play a little dietary defense. These are the tips I give to others and use myself to keep on…

Relationship problems? This is magic!

Marie Forleo, Guest Author

Ever been in the middle of a fight with a loved one and felt crushed by the realization that you’ve had this exact fight *100* times before? Cue David Byrne. “Same as it ever was. Same as it ever was.”

We’ve all been there. In fact, Josh and I were caught in this loop in a bad way a few years back. These days, it’s a different story. Dust ups rarely last more than a few…

Who Has the Power in Your Relationship?

Lori Hollander, LCSW-C, BCD, Guest Author

When it comes to dealing with conflict, it’s vital to understand how power affects your partnership dynamics. Dealing with differences should be a negotiation not a power play. Want to know who’s got the power in your relationship?

When I grew up it was clear that my dad had the power in my parents’ relationship. Dad was “in charge” – dad had the…

Wedding Debt: 5 Do’s and Dont’s!

Lauren Bowling, Guest Author

As a money blogger, I’ve always taken the stance that taking on debt for a wedding was a really silly concept.

… And then I became a bride. While we are (fortunately) able to avoid debt, I have to admit that I finally understand why people do it:

• The pressure of it being that one day. • Wanting your nearest and dearest to have a really nice time. • Splashing out on…

No “Timid-Speak” Allowed At Networking Events!

At a networking event and need a referral? Sorry ladies but this seems to be true: Women sometimes hedge requests about what they want because they’ve been conditioned to first be accommodating to others.

Accommodating others is a large part of networking, however, being too deferential can come across as meek, shy and timid causing other networkers to doubt your confidence or qualifications.…

Tips for Reading the Room Before a Meeting or Presentation

Rebecca Knight, Guest Author

In every conversation at work, there’s the explicit discussion happening — the words being spoken out loud — and the tacit one. To be successful in most organizations, it’s important to understand the underlying conversations and reactions that people in the room are having. But if you aren’t picking up on those subtle cues, how can you learn to do so? What signals…

Tips for Reading the Room Before a Meeting or Presentation

Rebecca Knight, Guest Author

In every conversation at work, there’s the explicit discussion happening — the words being spoken out loud — and the tacit one. To be successful in most organizations, it’s important to understand the underlying conversations and reactions that people in the room are having. But if you aren’t picking up on those subtle cues, how can you learn to do so? What signals…

8 Ways to $ave on Wedding Costs & Avoid Debt

CreditCards.com, Guest Author

Ask any soon-to-be bride about her wedding plans, and she’ll pull up elaborate Pinterest boards on her smartphone. With so many amazing ideas accessible at your fingertips, it’s no wonder why today’s engaged couples are under pressure to spend more than ever on their big day.

According to The Knot 2016 Real Weddings Study, the average wedding in 2016 cost $35,329…

9 Ways to Ensure Your Guests Have Fun at the Reception

Melissa Jill, Guest Author

Being newly engaged (or planning to pop the question) is such an exciting time in life, but we know it can also be a little overwhelming. That’s why we love to explore topics that might be helpful (or just plain fun) for newly engaged and almost engaged couples on our blog!

Your guests are SUCH an important part of your wedding, and couples have always been concerned…

Planning Your Perfect Intimate Garden Wedding

Cassie Steele, Guest Author

Arizona is perfect for your intimate garden wedding. It is warm and dry more than 300 days of the year, especially in Central Arizona where the summers are glorious. Having a garden wedding is personal and inexpensive. You will have plenty of time to decorate your garden without paying for venue charges. You can plan your perfect wedding in your home environment and…

7 Tips to Be Less Stressed Before Your Wedding

Deborah Lansing, Guest Author

It’s no secret that our wedding day is supposed to be a magical and happy time for us as a couple. When we envision our big day, we often picture a perfect ceremony and storybook affair. After all, haven’t we been nurturing this concept since we were young girls and boys?

Unfortunately, far too often, brides and grooms are caught off guard by the stress and anxiety…

What Men Need to Understand About Women and Sex!

Bob Hollander, JD, LCSW-C and Lori Hollander, LCSW-C, BCD, Guest Authors “She used to love sex. When we were in college we’d have sex three times a week. She truly enjoyed it. She initiated as much as I did. I don’t know what happened, but it’s not the same. Can’t we get back to that? Why did things change?” This is a common complaint we hear from men. In the beginning of the relationship, sex…

How To Select The Perfect Wedding Night Lingerie

Jennifer Saylor, Guest Author

The wedding season is here and all the would-be-brides are busy shopping and preparing themselves for the big-day of their life. It is the time when a lot of things comes to you, from selecting cards, venue, cloths, jewelry, inviting guests, deciding menu, taking care of your body to buying sexy luxury lingerie.

Shopping the perfect and sexy wedding night lingerie…