I see many husbands who call themselves "cuckold" and I follow many such blogs. I know it's probably just a matter of semantics and that's fine, but to me it is not truly cuckolding when they "share" their wives (and some would then "reclaim" her after she had been naughty with other men). To me that's maybe hotwifing or something like that, but my brand of cuckoldry is one that's part of a wife-led marriage, in which she calls the shots and directs how she wants to find pleasure. ¶ I realize that our arrangement is perhaps not common, but it feels natural that my wife and cuckoldress seeks pleasure on her terms, she neither asks permission from me nor is she interested in entertaining me with sharing the juicy details of her sexual life. She ignores me (sexually) and my needs - it's all about her needs. She will sometimes give me a pee treat or peg me, also would sit on my face somewhat more regularly, but entirely on her term, whenever SHE feels like it. Since she conceived our 2nd child about 5 years ago, she completely cut off my PIV privileges/access. She only fucks other men and shares details when she's in a mood to throw me a bone or tease me for her entertainment, but it is strictly NOT for my entertainment. If I was to ask her to tell me about her escapades she most certainly would shut down and tell me it's none of my business. She permanently keeps my cock in a cage 24-7. She's been doing this on and off for about 10 years, with the cage being on intermittently, but she still wanted me to be our kids' father, so we had PIV sex specifically for breeding purposes, optimizing the process towards getting her pregnant. She didn't find PIV sex with me stimulating at all (had to imagine fucking her bull in order to even be able to receive me inside, otherwise she would be dry), but we managed to get pregnant twice, 4 years between the kids. Once she got pregnant with the second one (we planned 2) she cut my PIV access off completely, no more PIV for me since (about 5 years ago). She wanted me to wear the cage (mature metal) at all times 24-7 for the rest of my life. However, I couldn't. Even though it was sized perfectly (BTW absolutely outstanding service by Mature Metal), I have an unusual cock in that it gets huge (8+ inches with girth) when erect, but then gets very small when limp. The cage had to be sized for the flaccid state, which meant that its growth, especially overnight and during "morning wood" there was extreme stress on my skin under the ring, consistently breaking down my skin after a few days to a maximum of couple of weeks wearing. The pressure sore would then get infected, swollen, warranting the removal of the cage, which would need to be off for another couple of weeks to allow the skin to fully heal, before the cage could go back on. That was the constant struggle for years until early this year (about 8 months ago), at which time I developed a complex treatment protocol with 3 different pressure sore ointments and Aquaphor, alternating them throughout the day (3-4 treatments/day). I tried some of these pressure sore ointments before too, but only after the skin started to break down, and then it wouldn't work, because the horses were out of the barn and the pressure sore process would just not reverse. The key now is that I started the treatments from day one, with the skin still perfectly intact and this was a game changer, in that the pressure sore never developed. This made it possible to remain in the cage 24-7 for 8 months now continuously, and it feels comfortable. Also, my morning wood greatly diminished, I no longer get awoken by it - and overall I think my cock shrunk some, and stays limp almost all the time. ¶ So I don't get a release, no PIV sex, no involvement or play of any form including my cock, or even just a hard-on for me. I don't "reclaim" or "share" my wife - she only fucks other men, as that's what turns her on, entirely on her terms. This is our version of cuckoldry.
