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I know we make jokes about the proverbial asexual pervert who has written hundreds of thousands of words of smut on ao3, but also shoutout to the aces who aren’t perverts. to the aces who skip the sex scenes and wince at sex jokes and awkwardly leave the conversation when your friends start talking about sex. your boundaries aren’t childish and fuck anyone who says otherwise.

Thank you i needed this🥹

I used this question as an ice breaker for one of my outpatient groups a few weeks ago and since they were a newer group, I answered first to model the introduction and symbolically model “getting vulnerable” and I said a combination of healing magic rolled into kitchen witchery. Yall the way they both roasted my ass and gassed me up 😂😂 it did lead to a really sweet discussion on acts of service and giving too much of ourselves to others in recovery though so kind of a victory? 😂💛

Hmmm I think mine would be teleportation simply because driving scary, car bad, gas expensive. I will not be taking questions.

how the hell do people work full time AND work out. and also eat. i feel like a dvd player

Hey, just so you know...you don't HAVE to read one book at a time. If people can watch 2-3 or more shows at a time, why can't you read more than one book? Who's going to stop you?

I always have a physical book, an audiobook, and an ebook going at the same time 😅

Damn, that's useful

Finally a hand sewing tutorial on a hemline that isn't just the ladder stitch! the ladder stitch disappears when you tighten it, but it's not meant for hemlines because it breaks really easily! The overlock stitch is more stable, so it holds much longer, and it won't pucker or warp the fabric!

OH HELL THE FUCK YES

I don't want to buy mass-produced garbage from a big box store so I go to etsy but half of etsy is now dropshipped mass-produced garbage or AI slop so I go to the local arts and crafts street market but a ton of those booths are also selling the same generic plastic objects or identical stickers or 3D printed dragons so WHERE do I buy real trinkets and art from sincere freaks

why am i dressed slutty you ask? to read classic literature alone in my room. mind your own business.

Book tok is cool because they’ll get on camera and suggest you read the biggest pile of dog shit ever made for no good reason

The older i get the more i understand why some people become obsessed with privacy, not because they’re hiding something, but because being constantly perceived starts to feel spiritually exhausting.

Why did “be critical of your media” turn into “find all its flaws and hate it” why did people become allergic to FUN

Because people confuse “critical as in critical thinking” with “critical as in criticizing something,” so they think that “look for something bad, no matter how far-fetched” is what “being critical” means.

OMG SOMEBODY PUT IT IN WORDS

And sometimes literary criticism can be PRAISE. Sometimes while deconstructing it, you discover cool shit the writer did in terms of structure or character, and it’s worthy of note that it was done and done effectively and well.