You are not a bad person for taking a break. If you feel overwhelmed it's absolutely ok to take a step back and take care of yourself.

Before it was normalized as “missionary position” the old name was “Venus observa” because you were face to face with your lover and that just makes me feel 🥺

‎"لا تهزأ بجرح لمّ تذقهُ". ‎Do not mock a pain you haven’t endured.

my aura is ♡ shaped

wild how like PCOS, endometriosis, vaginismus & hell, even frequent yeast infections are “mysterious” with no well known cause and little to no decent treatment, but we have tons of supposedly well researched body fat removal methods, about 20 different kinds of breast implants, laser hair removal, and 100 different dermatologist recommended anti aging creams. we sure had the money and brainpower to cure those “diseases”

The majority of sufferers of autoimmune diseases are women. Guess what else we don’t fucking understand at all

the way some (most lol) of you joke about trauma is disgusting. it’s one thing to make jokes out of your own trauma to cope but this bullshit about “i can tell you don’t have trauma” “trauma builds character” “dni if you aren’t traumatized” etc etc like i’m sorry but kids not having severe trauma is, god forbid, a good thing. keep your jokes to your dms like i understand being frustrated that someone doesn’t get what it’s like to have childhood trauma but for the love of god stop acting like trauma is part of growing up. no one deserves to be traumatized lol

like i’m sorry but you should not be telling people that they didn’t deserve to have normal parents. you should not be telling people that abusive parents are normal. because they’re not!! this website’s userbase is so used to this shit and make it seem like there’s something wrong with you if you didn’t experience abuse/bullying/etc but that’s the goal that’s the fucking goal!! and by no means am i trying to imply that shitty parents are the only source of trauma; that’s just an example. but it’s not a bad thing to be on good terms with your mom. it’s not a bad thing to not be suicidal. i promise it’s not.

you all act like having a shitty life is integral to being normal, but like…you’re all traumatized as hell and you didn’t deserve that shit. it’s not normal. stop acting like it is and stop belittling people who were lucky enough to have a good childhood.