Help for Kpop Fans

No, not at all. Never think of yourself as a bother. Really, it’s great that I get a chance to talk to you and help you as much as I can. You can come talk whenever you’d like (: 

I’m sorry I didn’t get to this question sooner. I hope everything is alright and you’re feeling happier! 

I’m sorry about that situation though, it must be terribly hard. Perhaps you could visit them or they could visit you. Or you could talk on the phone with them! Whatever the case may be I assure you that they miss you as well. You can find some comfort in that, even though that doesn’t fix the immediate problem of feeling lonely. But, I’m sure they miss your presence as well. 

And if you’re ever lonely, and just want to talk as friends and not specifically for advice then don’t hesitate to message me on my personal tumblr (: 

2016 is here and as much as resolutions are all around us, I know it can be hard when we have demons in our minds. 

I’m here to say 2016 is the year for mental improvements. Anxiety of course is not the only mental issue people deal with. However, on this page it is the most common and prevalent mental condition that we see. So let’s fix it! 

Don’t ever think the admins on this page are 100% normal. Absolutely not. We deal with things just as everyone else does. I deal with anxiety 24/7 and I have flares as well. But I also know that anxiety creates problems that don’t exist and it tries to convince me that what is actually nothing is a huge something. 

So this year, this month, this day, whatever you choose. Come to our ask box. Tell us your anxieties, tell us your improvements, tell us about your day. And let’s just talk. Let’s help each other! 

If there is a certain anxiety that you struggle with- perhaps social anxiety or interpersonal anxiety or intimate anxiety that you would like to see a post about please suggest it in the ask box. I want to make regular posts for people who would like to read stories and advice for big topics. 

Don’t be shy. I’m so excited if this takes off. 

I hope everyone is doing well! 

For a lot of people midterms for high school and college is rapidly approaching or is already upon us. Don’t forget that myself and the other Admin’s are always here to listen and help with any problems anyone may be having. 

Don’t hesitate to message us even if it’s just to let us know how your day went or even if something was really awesome! We want to hear everything! (:

Hello dear anon~ 

I’m sorry I haven’t gotten to your messages sooner, I hope you weren’t waiting long >.<

Okay so first let me start off by saying your friend is in the wrong and you are not at all. No matter what your feelings are on the subject of depression, they should never be invalidated and that’s exactly what your friend was doing. And to be honest, it could just have been a tactic to get off the subject of them owing you that favor. The way you described the conversation, they weren’t being empathetic or sympathetic and quite frankly they were being very selfish. I mean, people mention things in passing, you mentioning the favor she owes isn’t being forceful or anything and they are the one who made it seem that way. 

I understand where you’re coming from though. There’s this thing which is kind of like a side effect of anxiety. It’s forgetfulness. Forgetfulness in that you, yourself, aren’t doing anything wrong by being yourself. Because this person made you feel a certain way, it’s much easier to forget and convince yourself that maybe you have become meaner or different. When really that’s not the case at all. I can only imagine what it’s like to have a sibling with depression, and I know from just that fact that there’s no way you could talk about it in a joking manner. 

From the things you’ve told me, I know you aren’t mean. I don’t want to judge your friend either, because maybe it was just a big misunderstanding, but I do believe that they were wrong for handling the conversation the way that they did. And if someone, no matter who it is, makes you think of yourself as a lesser person, then there’s a big problem. But that doesn’t mean there isn’t a fix. You can always talk to them about it, but I can imagine that wouldn’t be the easiest if even a simple conversation with them can lead to feelings like this.

When it comes to serious topics and situations, everyone has their own way of dealing and coping and some people have defense mechanisms that don’t sit well with other people. But that’s not to make you feel like you’re wrong for doing so. I’ll give you an example. When I’m given bad news, or I am baring bad news to someone, I have this really ironic smile on my face, it’s just a defense I do and people get upset at me for it. But you making uncomfortable topics lighter isn’t a flaw, it’s just a feature of yours that sits well with others and not so well with others. 

All in all, you should never be made to feel worse about yourself by someone else. It’s not right, nor are they right for making you feel that way. You’re fine the way you are, you’re you and people change so don’t be afraid of that, just know that as you do change, the goodness of you carries over but just may not be understood by everyone. Please, if you’d like to talk more make sure and message us again or you can contact me directly at my personal blog here. 

Stay strong beautiful~ 

Would anyone be interested in hearing mine, or another Admin’s thoughts on a particular topic? 

For example: You could submit the topic of “Anxiety” or be even more specific and say “Anxiety around others at school” or literally anything. 

I would LOVEEEEE to talk about things you all want to know about or are worried about. If you’d like to hear about a topic please message us or reply to this post (:

-Admin S

Hello all! 

This blog has seem kinda vacant lately huh? I’m sorry about that, I will most definitely try to improve! 

It’s getting to that time of year again where school is coming around. Whether it be high school, or university, or any other kind of worries; I just wanted to let everyone know that this blog is still up and running to be a listener and advice giver. 

If you’d like to share a worry you have, or even something you’re excited about, please do! I would love to read and share my thoughts with you all. I’ll go first: I’m super excited to go back to college to see my best friend/roommate! 

It can be as simple as that! Hope you all have a good day/night (: toodles~

Hello All! 

I hope everyone’s summer is off to a good start! (: I hope it’s relaxing and fun filled. Or if you’re still in school or work that it’s not too strenuous.  Sometimes it becomes a little quiet or lonesome and that’s totally normal. Just remember if you ever find yourself thinking too much or ever need to talk, our ask box is forever open and any one of us are willing to listen!

I’m not sure when we got this message because it seems none of the admins have been too active lately probably because of finals and such but sadly I cannot find her blog ): if you know where she relocated please let us know ^.^