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Even if pregnancy and child birth wasn't one of the most painstaking things one could put their bodies through. Even if child rearing wasn't a lot of labour and time. Even if this whole process didn't affect one's brain this much. Even if we could reach into a mystical pocket and bring people to earth while fully formed, I would still not bring anyone to earth. Life is shit here, that's the truth. For as long as oppression systems like patriarchy and racism and capitalism exist, bringing anyone here is just cruel. Parents make victims. Everyone is a victim of something. Even those of us who have deconstructed harmful programming are still victims of those systems. We can't reverse the harm and worse, we still live under these systems. People are just bringing more people here to suffer.

also I don't think parents "these days" are uniquely terrible, I just think neglect is showing up in new ways as technology progresses. today's ipad kid would've been wandering around in a ditch alone all day and night before. parents not wanting to have to deal with children is not a new phenomenon.

This blog is anti chatgpt and pro breeding kink without the pregnancy part

anyway the thing about fanfic is that it's not essentially bad or good; it's essentially amateur. some people are absolutely out there writing award-worthy prose (some fic writers ARE award-winning writers IRL!), but that's not the point. the point is that we're all telling campfire stories. it's a community, and it's a way to spend some more time in the worlds and stories that we love.

Are you lurking? 😅Listen at this hit dog 😭 hoes mad. I said what I said. Also fuck you? Stupid bitch lol.

resilience is not sustainable we are not supposed to endure life we are supposed to live it

as a writer you will have a specific deck of vocab words you like using a lot and when you read other peoples' work you will see a very clear spread of different vocab words on their end. this is why you need to read, to collect other writers' words like it's a card game

honestly how do parents even live with the guilt i couldn’t imagine making someone and seeing them everyday and knowing i did that to them

Giving your child a good childhood doesn't guarantee the world will treat them kindly once they step outside your home. Natalists often forget that the only person who would love their child unconditionally—if said child is lucky—is themselves. They might not harm their children, but other people might. A good upbringing isn't a foolproof shield against suffering. Pain is inevitable, and sooner or later it will find them in one form or another. For that reason, no amount of good parenting can convince me that natalism is inherently good. The most anyone can hope for is that the good will outweigh the bad. Yet many natalists don't seem to think about this because they have no issue bringing children into life full of struggles.