I think you’re being a little defensive I understand why you’re so adamant on mdni YOU SHOULD BE but the last anon had a good point and you were being a dick trying to avoid any blame or flaw of your behaviour
That minor is responsible for their actions, they should have never disrespected you or endangered you and your mental health by disregarding clearly set rules but YOU are responsible for your own. YOU are responsible for interacting with them, even if you didn’t begin it, for letting them in the server (whether you invited them or are a mod)
You’re still expected to interact with people respectfully and if you can’t do that, you need to spend some time alone and reevaluate.
That anon was being considerate and kind with the way they worded that perfectly valid question you are expected to answer as an adult responsible for their own actions. They didn’t assume, and frankly I think you should be grateful to them for giving you an opportunity to clarify your behaviour, not deflect and become defensive.
I can't believe I have to break this down for you, fuck being nice.
1) I am defensive because time and time again I've done my very best to keep this kind of shit from from happening. This isn't the first time I've been put in an uncomfortable situation and unfortunately this incident was the worst. The only point I saw being made was them making it sound like I don't do shit to keep this blog safe. You don't know what I've done and you sure as hell don't know how I feel.
2) Shut the fuck up about the server. This is the last and only time I'll be addressing this. THE SERVER WAS SPECIFICALLY ONLY FOR ME AND STELLA. Out of the kindness of my heart I trusted her. Way before ID checks the only thing we asked to cooperate with us is your blog age. Obviously you can lie about that but there's this thing called BENEFIT OF DOUBT. It's the same for you here, how am I supposed to know you're not a fucking minor/apologist ? You are after all going on anon.
3) I didn't put up that post to be shit on, rather to bring light to this and because I don't want this happening to other mods. Sue me for being defensive, I started this to have fun and give free service out of my busy schedule and I get blamed from having someone else fault me? Fuck you and fuck whatever arguments you have, come into the DMs off anon and I'll happily talk to you.
4) I am an 18 year old FULL-TIME student, bite me for being upset and distressed about this. I won't apologise for what I said because it is true. You don't get to tell me what to do after I've spent hours going to the lists of my anons, INDIVIDUALLY messaging people who I deem suspicious, going out of my way make sure I try my best. You don't get to put expectations on me, I don’t serve your entitled ass. I've been more than nice to everyone here. I've had people cross my boundaries and yet I forgive and try to move on.
You are in no position to tell someone how to feel or what to do and say when you were NEVER involved in the first place. Fuck off.