how I met my belly

The FEEDISM MAP

As requested, with the descriptions from issue #01 of HORNGRY.

There’s a place for everyone and it’s an amazing spectrum. We all have different aspects we gravitate towards and other we don’t. Don’t expect just because you’re into humiliation, that everyone else will be. Or that because weight measurements do it for you, everyone else feels the same way. Respect all combinations of these aspects and take your time to find out what your chat partner is into. ♡

**July 2017 Update: Watch this space, some awesome things are happening!** 

FEEDING - for all you, who love to be fed by a feeder. Whether it’s a second dessert as hot foreplay in bed, or an entire meal. It’s a pretty common aspect that has different ways of how it is used:

FORCE FEEDING - for all of you who love it rough. When you’re so full you can’t eat another bite… or can you? Let’s test your limits, let’s see how you do when you truly lose control…

FOODISM - for all the foodies out there that love quality just as much as quantity. Restaurants or home cooked haute cuisine are your favorite weapon of choice. After all, taste buds are just another sex organ…

COOKING - for all of you who love to cook, or have someone cook for you! The sizzling of a frying pan, the smell of hot lasagne right out of the oven, followed by a fresh batch of cupcakes…

STUFFING - for all of you who love the feeling of a belly being filled up by the sheer amounts of food you can fit into it. The more, the better! The tightness, the pressure, after all, stuffing is more than just a means to an end.

BLOATING - for all of you who love the feeling of a delicious liquid streaming down your throat, stretching your belly to new limits. Whether it’s just a temporary expansion or part of your daily bellybuilding routine. 

TIGHT CLOTHES - for all of you who love the straining of buttons, the feeling of a belt digging into your lovehandles and your shirt riding up with each move, revealing your beautiful size to everyone around…

MEASURING - for all of you who consider a scale and a measuring tape just another sex toy. How exciting it is to see the numbers climb with every bite of food you take. 

FAT WORSHIP - for all of you that know the belly is something that deserves to be worshiped and respected. You want to see the pride in your feeders eyes, hear them mutter words of adoration…

BELLY PLAY - for all of you who can’t keep your hands away from your belly. You love the feeling of how it jiggles when you lift it up, the warmth of your admirers hands on your soft fat and the soothing pressure of a belly massage.

BEARS - for all of you who identify as big, furry bears. Whether you’re gay, bi or straight, the beard’s all yours and compliments the belly just as much as your thick chest rug.

LIFTING - for all of you who enjoy muscle growth just as much as belly growth. After all, a bit gut is impressive already… but combine that with big beefy arms and you have yourself an amazing beefy built that will certainly turn heads.

BONDAGE - for all of you who love to be tied up. Goes best with a nice feeding. Whether it’s ropes, or hand cuffs… or maybe a blind fold? 

ROLE PLAY - for all of you who love to creative. Whether you like to imagine yourself way bigger than you are (for now!), or go in a completely different direction. The possibilities are literally endless…

INSTANT GAINING - for all of you impatient folks who love the idea of gaining all the weight in just a matter of minutes. Whether it’s magical or scientific. Just lay back and imagine yourself grow…

CONTRAST - Because nothing makes you feel bigger than seeing your fat next to someone tiny. And nothing makes you feel tinier than standing next to mountains of fat…

INFLATION - Because it’s not all about food, sometimes you just want to feel yourself expand and expand.

PADDING - for all you who love the feeling of a soft pillow under your clothes to imitate a bigger size. The softness, that feels like fat and the feeling of walking around in a new and bigger size… do you dare going out like that?

HUMILIATION - for all of you who love the naughty teasing, or even the harsher, adrenaline rush inducing insult from your feeder. The exciting mixture of shame and pleasure when they call you out on how fat you’ve gotten…

FUNNEL FEEDING - for all of you who just can’t get enough! A mash up of bloating and force feeding… The especially greedy ones can even do it by themselves.

BLUEBERRY - “I’m the World Record holder in chewing gum. I’m not afraid of anything!“ - Violet, Beauregarde

MEGALOMANIA - for all of you know that size does matter… Whether it’s tallness, big beefy muscles or a big fat belly. You just can’t get big enough, strong enough, fat enough…

CRUSHING - for all of you who love to see what your impressive weight is capable of.

CRUSHING OBJECTS - for all of you that love to break everything in sight with your size! The sound of a bed squeaking under your weight, a chair breaking because it just can’t handle your growing body…

CRUSHING PEOPLE - for all of you that literally take our breath away! You love to make your feeder feel what all that added weight really feels like. You make them squirm with pleasure, especially if you’re getting too big to handle…

- - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - 

As of 2017 we’ve decided to start covering the different aspects of this Kink Matrix in more detail and together with my Horngry 4 More podcast cohost, Pizzawolf, we’ll be covering the origin stories of those kinks and how they intersect with feedism. I’ll be updating this post regularly when we add more content.

Their shocked expression would be so cute… especially when i sat in their lap and they realized they were all tied up and would have to eat each and every bite if they wanted me to let them go. 

Let me guess, my dear ... You've dated a man or two of average weight. He wasn't as big as you might have hoped, but his other qualities made up for it. At least, that's what you told yourself. You'd try to quench your desires with the few crumbs of excitement he'd give you, trying to be satisfied with the 5 pounds he'd put on since he met you or his sweet tooth. Maybe you tried to slightly reveal your kink to him, but he still didn't quite get it. Even if he'd try to fulfill you, it was always underwhelming. "It's okay" you'd tell yourself. You could go online to get your fat fix, but that's always a poor substitute. Maybe you even dated a chubby guy. But on the first date, he talked about his weight loss goals. You'd feel guilty offering him a snack, but at least it was one small joy. Other times you approached bigger guys, they ignored you. So you started rationalizing settling for a smaller man. "Big guys weren't available anyway" you told yourself. "Besides they're unhealthy" you might think, even though you'd be the first to warn about following stereotypes. But the truth is you're sick of thin men, and those that want to be like them -- aren't you? You never want to hear about a 5K training, a diet, treadmill minutes, or anything like that again. The truth is you want a 250+ pound fatty who says "yes" to everything you offer to feed him, so you can watch him pile on another 100+ lbs of chub onto his overflowing gut with all your loving. You want to dive into him, sink into his rolls, grab him, and be surrounded by a big man -- one confident, secure, soft, warm, and delightful.