âThis is the big reveal thatâs mirrored in the game of mahjong. Rachel draws a tile in mahjong. Itâs a set-building game; itâs very much like poker, so you can draw a card that gives you the win. So Rachel draws the win, but instead of winning, she lets Eleanor have [the winning tile], and so that mirrors the dialogue because what she tells Eleanor in that moment is, âYour son has proposed to me, but because I donât want him to lose his relationship with his mother, I am going to say no and in the future, when he marries someone you think is appropriate, youâre going to remember that thatâs because of me.â ~ Bourree Lam, journalist