When you get to a certain level of subbing there is a certain way your mind works in a scene and you can find yourself getting a bit grabby so to speak, so you need a top that knows how to satisfy both your needs but by never letting the sub feel like he’s gained control of the scene. This little conversation addresses this, and it’s basically me telling a top how my mind works and how to stop me getting what I want…..which ironically is at the same making sure I get exactly what I want














