Hiyaa kiki i hope you're doing wonderful i hope i can participate in your free card reading pls.
My name is aria and i am a cancer āļø , honestly this year 2026 has been a little rocky for me atleast relationship wise which have left me deeply confused about what's actually been going on i hope to find some guidance from you.
Since the beginning of this year, my partner and I have been constantly fighting about how he prioritizes his "soul sister," who is eight years older than us. This sudden shift caught me completely off guard, especially since we have been together for nearly two years and this was never an issue before. Because of our continuous arguments over him prioritizing her and not making time for me, we broke up in March. We ended up getting back together later that month, but the core issue never changed; we kept fighting about the exact same things, and I continued to feel neglected. Now, at the end of May, the same problems have driven us apart again. We have stopped talking and have been completely "no contact" for the past week.
I am emotionally exhausted from feeling like a third party in my own relationship. I need some guidance on what to do next. Should I wait for him? Is there any hope that he will change or that this situation will get better? What does the future actually hold for me?
Hi Aria-- very pretty name btw! :) I totally get feeling exhausted with this; it is soooo exhausting! Let's get some guidance from the cards!
What should you do?: The Empress Reversed, Two of Wands Reversed, Queen of Swords
Outcome of this situation?: Ten of Wands Reversed, Four of Wands Reversed
What does the future hold for you?: Eight of Cups
So first and foremost, I think you need to focus on you right now with the Empress Reversed. It feels like you're giving a lot of emotion to this situation (and trust me, I have been there... I'm currently there with my own situation). I know it's hard to hear because my own reading have been giving me the same advice but... this is the time for you to focus on you. Invest in your hobbies, invest in you. You deserve it. I also sense that you are being asked to see this situation for what it is from a more logical mind with the Queen of Swords. Things feel cloudy, indecisive, undecided, stalled with the Two of Wands, but your direction and emotional state shouldn't depend on him or his choices... even if that sucks.
Later down the line, you will eventually be able to set this burden down and with the Four of Wands Reversed, this doesn't feel like a reunion to me. It could be that a return happens but it just reminds you why you left in the first place. As is stands right now, I don't see forward motion on progress for him, I don't see him really stepping away from this "soul sister" in any meaningful way. However, maybe that will provide you with the clarity you need to walk away. Which is where the Eight of Cups comes in-- the Eight of Cups is all about walking away from something that felt... almost right. Almost perfect. Almost grounded. Usually it's like... "this is all great except there's this one thing I just CAN'T handle." So, in this case, it feels like things feel emotionally pretty good EXCEPT for this one thing. And of course as you walk away, you might notice other things, but for right now it feels like "if only it weren't for that one thing...". But the Eight of Cups is in search of something better, more aligned, more grounding. And I mean, I do think you'll find that. Let's get an oracle card for the future.
Oracle Message: Baba Yaga
This card reads "Things are not always what they seem." So.. perhaps down the line, as you're walking away, you will look back and see this as not a great hurt, but a great blessing. Or you'll realize other truths, but it feels like you'll be in a much safer place when you're more distanced from it. <3
I wish I could say hey, this is all gonna turn out better and he's gonna grow and so on, but it doesn't look like it's in the cards right now unfortunately, love.