hi! I don't want to sound rude at all or anything, but what has Ian Somerhalder done that's brought on the negativity? again, not trying to seem like a dick, just looking to be informed. thanks! (:
Iâm so sorry this took me 10 years to reply to I got it this morning but Iâve been so busy I havenât had the time to respond until now. Also, pls donât feel bad for asking a question youâre totally fine! Iâm on mobile at my aunts house so this isnât as good as it would be if I could like sit down and type a response so Iâm going to do the best that I can, here goes:
-When he started dating Nikki he was at a convention and he said he needed viagra to shoot DE scenes because apparently Nina is just so gross. Like come on dude, we all saw how obsessed he was with her, it was a little extensive at times (i.e. staring at her boobs during interviews). Yea, he sure as hell never needed viagra with her lmao bitter much, Ian?
-He also said that Elenaâs contribution to the show was âbanging the brothers and now theyâre better people for itâ. I mean the dude straight up slut shamed a female character for having sex with her boyfriends. (Meanwhile his character has literally fucked every female character thatâs ever been on the show)
-also when a fan asked if weâd ever get to see a delena wedding he said âIâm already married.â Apparently he doesnât understand the difference between real life and television.
-Yelling and berating a group of like 10 fans that were just asking for autographs, literally making a girl cry. He legit screamed at her for asking to take a photo, itâs on video and he gave this long ass speech to them like âTHIS IS MY DAYâ and then when everyone called him out on it after they saw the video online he made this Instagram post with a ten paragraph caption (full of grammatical errors bc heâs an idiot) about how great he is and how he did nothing wrong because heâs amazing to his fans. (Because screaming at them for wanting to take a photo with you because they look up to you is treating your fans so great)
-A few weeks later another video was released of him doing the same thing again
-heâs such a child he canât even be in the same room as Nina. Example: the past teen choice awards he had a con going on so they rescheduled the entire convention so heâd be able to attend the tcaâs, but then he blew it off. Nina was the only one that showed up and accepted the award that they had BOTH won all by herself. Dude canât even face his ex girlfriend who is perhaps one of the most reserved and mature women Iâve ever seen and has a new boyfriend like come on youâve both moved on and she left the show, you canât even stand on a stage with her for 2 minutes to thank your fans for endlessly voting and giving you this award???
-One time he liked a photo Nina posted on Twitter and then claimed he was âhacked.â (Even though he insists that theyâre friends and thereâs no bad blood but he canât like a photo she posts on social media thatâs just too far lol) and apparently when someone hacks your Twitter they just like someoneâs photo and then do nothing else lmao even the cast of the show (Matt Davis) were making fun of him for it bc it was such a lie
-his foundation is bullshit. Theyâve legit never done a single thing and most of the donations go to him personally so now he has a 3 million dollar home in Venice thanks to his fake love for animals. Also, the people that donated thousands of dollars with the promise of a phone call with him never got it. Heâs been investigated by the IRS like ten times already.
-he legit gets in fights with 10 year old girls on social media just take a look at his insta itâs all there. Some 12 year old made a comment about Nikki once and he straight up responded and flipped out at her and everyone was like wow okay sheâs a child probably on her moms phone and youâre a grown man like come on grow the fuck up. And heâs done this multiple times to multiple girls. What kind of 36 year old man feels so threatened by a little kid that heâs gotta put her in her place? Once again, GROW UP.
-heâs super inappropriate with underage girls at conventions and makes comments about their âboobiesâ (his word not mine)
-made a rape joke about a month back when someone asked why Bonnie would ever sleep with Damon so he said heâd âget her drunkâ bc when youâre drunk you canât consent
-only takes pictures or interacts with fans if heâs being paid at conventions otherwise he refuses and yells at them
-he also lied about his relationship with Nikki. Someone once said it was kinda fucked up that he would date his exâs friend and he responded by saying that Nikki and Nina werenât friends and only met twice, which is a straight up lie. The two ladies made a video together for this campaign about health insurance, they hung out tons of times (thereâs photos), Nina was literally at Nikkiâs first wedding a few years back and the couples used to go on double dates. Itâs his life and he can do what he wants, but the man just constantly lies about everything itâs ridiculous. Like even if they were friends who cares why do you feel the need to lie about it just to explain yourself to some random commenter on the Internet???
-his ego is so big idk how he can even walk down the street without it weighing him down the dude is obsessed with himself. He has a contest going on right now where you can win a dinner with him and Nikki and literally JUST TO ENTER you have to pay 10,000 dollars lmao
-thereâs so much stuff itâs impossible to list all of it but that gives you an idea. For more stuff just check my anti-Ian tag itâs got everything thatâs ever been posted.
-overall heâs a disgusting self obsessed misogynistic piece of shit who thinks heâs gods gift to women when in fact heâs nothing but a creepy narcissistic ass hole
BAMMMM!
Exactly my thoughts.
